"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Waited too long to **** her....LOL
- Thread starter Marvin Gaye
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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It's black genetics they can't be helpedBlue Hef said:
Same thing happened to me a few weeks ago - I left things too late: Some HB8 I used to know from years ago contacts me again quite randomly through FB, after enjoying a comment I made on a mutual friend's page. She's flirting big time. She gets my email address and I play it like I couldn't give a sh1t, but then SHE escalates things quite quickly. She starts sending me VERY explicit X rated pictures / videos by email and MMS, her with toys, gorgeous underwear on, in the bath stuff, says she's a squirter and sends me video evidence. It also turns out she's a kinkster and is a big **** fan and very submissive. Wants me to go around there, Dominate, whip, spank, hot wax and fvck the sh1t out of her. "You can do ANYTHING you like to me.. oh and I love pain." were her words. She's got all the gear too, really into the scene.
So anyway I was planning on visiting her (she's live quite a way away) but I'd booked some time away on a holiday and was away with work related stuff, so couldn't for a few weeks. Anyway when I get back I fancy some hardcore action, I email her and she replies...
"I really want to, but I've just met someone and it wouldn't be fair to him."
She'd gone to a party met some bloke and that's it, opportunity missed..... sigh....!
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Ouch man that's the worst.Skalioppe said:
That really sucks because your girl was WAY more obvious than my story. I mean wtf man!!! Where did you have to go that was so important???
That girl sounds like a HUGE freak. And definitely not the relationship type of girl. fvck that guy seriously. get back with her and hit that.
You can't change the past but I really wish you would have visited her for like one night only...give her a little taste you know what I'm saying and then left to do your business. Then she wouldn't be so concerned with whatever fvcktard she's dealing with now
such is life !!!!!!
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and she isn't 13Skalioppe said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
bcolon
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She is okay. I guess. She scares me because she looks very young like she is freshman in high school and you look like a senior in college.
That BPD is a HUGE turn off and like Zerro said, the rating system is broken. It's either fvck or not fvck. Simple. That's the best system.
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bcolon said:
From your text you seem kind of...depressed. Are you doing alright bcolon?
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Solomon said:
Ouch...thanks for posting this.
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The vortex is starting to swirl again and my future sanity depends on my staying away (which I can easily do now).
Beware the BPD. She is the strongest drug known to mankind. They can be extremely difficult to get rid of.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I would have "piped her" right quick, then dropped at the first sign of trouble.
Missed opportunity for sure. It happens to the best of us. I missed out on a 3-some once.
The pics of both girls are equally fvckable IMO. I'd rate them both 7's by the photos.
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Well both girls happen to be the same personpdx1138 said: