"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Waited too long to **** her....LOL
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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It's black genetics they can't be helpedBlue Hef said:
Same thing happened to me a few weeks ago - I left things too late: Some HB8 I used to know from years ago contacts me again quite randomly through FB, after enjoying a comment I made on a mutual friend's page. She's flirting big time. She gets my email address and I play it like I couldn't give a sh1t, but then SHE escalates things quite quickly. She starts sending me VERY explicit X rated pictures / videos by email and MMS, her with toys, gorgeous underwear on, in the bath stuff, says she's a squirter and sends me video evidence. It also turns out she's a kinkster and is a big **** fan and very submissive. Wants me to go around there, Dominate, whip, spank, hot wax and fvck the sh1t out of her. "You can do ANYTHING you like to me.. oh and I love pain." were her words. She's got all the gear too, really into the scene.
So anyway I was planning on visiting her (she's live quite a way away) but I'd booked some time away on a holiday and was away with work related stuff, so couldn't for a few weeks. Anyway when I get back I fancy some hardcore action, I email her and she replies...
"I really want to, but I've just met someone and it wouldn't be fair to him."
She'd gone to a party met some bloke and that's it, opportunity missed..... sigh....!
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Ouch man that's the worst.Skalioppe said:
That really sucks because your girl was WAY more obvious than my story. I mean wtf man!!! Where did you have to go that was so important???
That girl sounds like a HUGE freak. And definitely not the relationship type of girl. fvck that guy seriously. get back with her and hit that.
You can't change the past but I really wish you would have visited her for like one night only...give her a little taste you know what I'm saying and then left to do your business. Then she wouldn't be so concerned with whatever fvcktard she's dealing with now
such is life !!!!!!
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and she isn't 13Skalioppe said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
bcolon
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She is okay. I guess. She scares me because she looks very young like she is freshman in high school and you look like a senior in college.
That BPD is a HUGE turn off and like Zerro said, the rating system is broken. It's either fvck or not fvck. Simple. That's the best system.
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bcolon said:
From your text you seem kind of...depressed. Are you doing alright bcolon?
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Solomon said:
Ouch...thanks for posting this.
Atom Smasher
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The vortex is starting to swirl again and my future sanity depends on my staying away (which I can easily do now).
Beware the BPD. She is the strongest drug known to mankind. They can be extremely difficult to get rid of.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I would have "piped her" right quick, then dropped at the first sign of trouble.
Missed opportunity for sure. It happens to the best of us. I missed out on a 3-some once.
The pics of both girls are equally fvckable IMO. I'd rate them both 7's by the photos.
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Well both girls happen to be the same personpdx1138 said: