That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
It's black genetics they can't be helpedBlue Hef said:This chick looks way too young for you to be ****ing bro....she looks 16 and you look 36 lol
Ouch man that's the worst.Skalioppe said:Ha ha, the girl looks about 13! There's no way she's legal.
Same thing happened to me a few weeks ago - I left things too late: Some HB8 I used to know from years ago contacts me again quite randomly through FB, after enjoying a comment I made on a mutual friend's page. She's flirting big time. She gets my email address and I play it like I couldn't give a sh1t, but then SHE escalates things quite quickly. She starts sending me VERY explicit X rated pictures / videos by email and MMS, her with toys, gorgeous underwear on, in the bath stuff, says she's a squirter and sends me video evidence. It also turns out she's a kinkster and is a big **** fan and very submissive. Wants me to go around there, Dominate, whip, spank, hot wax and fvck the sh1t out of her. "You can do ANYTHING you like to me.. oh and I love pain." were her words. She's got all the gear too, really into the scene.
So anyway I was planning on visiting her (she's live quite a way away) but I'd booked some time away on a holiday and was away with work related stuff, so couldn't for a few weeks. Anyway when I get back I fancy some hardcore action, I email her and she replies...
"I really want to, but I've just met someone and it wouldn't be fair to him."
She'd gone to a party met some bloke and that's it, opportunity missed..... sigh....!
and she isn't 13Skalioppe said:Ha ha, the girl looks about 13! There's no way she's legal.
S!
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
bcolon said:Seems like I seen these same pictures posted here a few months ago. Just the one with you is edited with your photo. Like the girl in that photo was going out with a AFC who just graduated from high school. As a matter of fact that dude was a member on this site. Not sure if you was the one that posted these pictures sometime ago.
She is okay. I guess. She scares me because she looks very young like she is freshman in high school and you look like a senior in college.
That BPD is a HUGE turn off and like Zerro said, the rating system is broken. It's either fvck or not fvck. Simple. That's the best system.
Solomon said:
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Well both girls happen to be the same personpdx1138 said:DAAMMMN!
I would have "piped her" right quick, then dropped at the first sign of trouble.
Missed opportunity for sure. It happens to the best of us. I missed out on a 3-some once.
The pics of both girls are equally fvckable IMO. I'd rate them both 7's by the photos.