"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Waited too long to **** her....LOL
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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It's black genetics they can't be helpedBlue Hef said:
Same thing happened to me a few weeks ago - I left things too late: Some HB8 I used to know from years ago contacts me again quite randomly through FB, after enjoying a comment I made on a mutual friend's page. She's flirting big time. She gets my email address and I play it like I couldn't give a sh1t, but then SHE escalates things quite quickly. She starts sending me VERY explicit X rated pictures / videos by email and MMS, her with toys, gorgeous underwear on, in the bath stuff, says she's a squirter and sends me video evidence. It also turns out she's a kinkster and is a big **** fan and very submissive. Wants me to go around there, Dominate, whip, spank, hot wax and fvck the sh1t out of her. "You can do ANYTHING you like to me.. oh and I love pain." were her words. She's got all the gear too, really into the scene.
So anyway I was planning on visiting her (she's live quite a way away) but I'd booked some time away on a holiday and was away with work related stuff, so couldn't for a few weeks. Anyway when I get back I fancy some hardcore action, I email her and she replies...
"I really want to, but I've just met someone and it wouldn't be fair to him."
She'd gone to a party met some bloke and that's it, opportunity missed..... sigh....!
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Ouch man that's the worst.Skalioppe said:
That really sucks because your girl was WAY more obvious than my story. I mean wtf man!!! Where did you have to go that was so important???
That girl sounds like a HUGE freak. And definitely not the relationship type of girl. fvck that guy seriously. get back with her and hit that.
You can't change the past but I really wish you would have visited her for like one night only...give her a little taste you know what I'm saying and then left to do your business. Then she wouldn't be so concerned with whatever fvcktard she's dealing with now
such is life !!!!!!
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and she isn't 13Skalioppe said:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
bcolon
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She is okay. I guess. She scares me because she looks very young like she is freshman in high school and you look like a senior in college.
That BPD is a HUGE turn off and like Zerro said, the rating system is broken. It's either fvck or not fvck. Simple. That's the best system.
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bcolon said:
From your text you seem kind of...depressed. Are you doing alright bcolon?
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Solomon said:
Ouch...thanks for posting this.
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The vortex is starting to swirl again and my future sanity depends on my staying away (which I can easily do now).
Beware the BPD. She is the strongest drug known to mankind. They can be extremely difficult to get rid of.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I would have "piped her" right quick, then dropped at the first sign of trouble.
Missed opportunity for sure. It happens to the best of us. I missed out on a 3-some once.
The pics of both girls are equally fvckable IMO. I'd rate them both 7's by the photos.
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Well both girls happen to be the same personpdx1138 said: