"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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when did you loose your virginity

  • 12 and below

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • 12-14

    Votes: 1 2.2%
  • 15-17

    Votes: 16 35.6%
  • 18-21

    Votes: 13 28.9%
  • 21 and above

    Votes: 15 33.3%

  • Total voters
    45

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Well,if you must know,I was 19 almost 20. For years,I was so depressed over the fact. I still haven't been laid in a long time to begin with. So getting over this hump has been harder than normal....what about you sir?
 

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23 years old and to a hooker. Beat that!®

Hell I still haven't had sex with a real girl. If you don't count hookers, 40 year old something swingers at a sex club and AFF I'd still be a virgin at 27.
 

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wow..it seems I should have increased the number of options in the upper age limit...i thought most puas would have lost their virginity much earlier :)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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thinktank1985 said:
wow..it seems I should have increased the number of options in the upper age limit...i thought most puas would have lost their virginity much earlier :)
Think of it this way, people coming to this site probably HAVEN'T and are here for that same reason.

then again, i lost mine at 15. to a chick at a rave in a washroom. Yeah, classy :|
 

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Loosing virginity? I prefer to tighten it up.
 

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thinktank1985 said:
wow..it seems I should have increased the number of options in the upper age limit...i thought most puas would have lost their virginity much earlier :)
Agreeing with Aragon034,

Most guys when they first come to this site are not PUA but may actually be very bad with women. The reason they come here is for help, not to brag.
 

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18th birthday, dad owned a bar and somehow inclined one of his attractive female bartenders to give me a present. It was really slick; I had no idea what was going on, all I knew was this hot chick who worked for my dad spontaneously became all into me.

To this very day the circumstances I speak of are just a theory, but they seem like the most reasonable one.
 
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seriously, you guys are like little boys

its LOSE, not LOOSE

when you lose something, that means you lost something

when you make something LOOSE, that means you make it "less tight"

i kind of think its geeky to always misspell the word lose of all things
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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18 years old, last November, with a girl I met in my Ceramics class. She was too drunk to drive home, so she spent the night at my house, the rest is history.
 

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on day 2 to this chick i met in the delivery room

she gave me a nice welcome :yes:
 

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The Logical Player said:
seriously, you guys are like little boys
its LOSE, not LOOSE
when you lose something, that means you lost something
when you make something LOOSE, that means you make it "less tight"
i kind of think its geeky to always misspell the word lose of all things

Well since you're being nit-picky, it's not misspelling, it's poor grammar. But I agree with you. Lose, loose, they're, their, there, it's, its, etc.
 

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Jon55 said:
Well since you're being nit-picky, it's not misspelling, it's poor grammar. But I agree with you. Lose, loose, they're, their, there, it's, its, etc.
It's not a grammatical issue, it's a spelling issue. Grammar is about sentence structure. It's just one too many O's. And yes, after seeing it for a 928th time on the internet, it gets f*cking annoying.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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