thinktank1985
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so when did you loose your virginity?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
CapedCrusader08
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Well,if you must know,I was 19 almost 20. For years,I was so depressed over the fact. I still haven't been laid in a long time to begin with. So getting over this hump has been harder than normal....what about you sir?
thinktank1985
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well I am still to loose mine...but actively trying to do so... 
Maxtro
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23 years old and to a hooker. Beat that!®
Hell I still haven't had sex with a real girl. If you don't count hookers, 40 year old something swingers at a sex club and AFF I'd still be a virgin at 27.
Hell I still haven't had sex with a real girl. If you don't count hookers, 40 year old something swingers at a sex club and AFF I'd still be a virgin at 27.
thinktank1985
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wow..it seems I should have increased the number of options in the upper age limit...i thought most puas would have lost their virginity much earlier
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Think of it this way, people coming to this site probably HAVEN'T and are here for that same reason.thinktank1985 said:wow..it seems I should have increased the number of options in the upper age limit...i thought most puas would have lost their virginity much earlier
then again, i lost mine at 15. to a chick at a rave in a washroom. Yeah, classy :|
Maxtro
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Agreeing with Aragon034,thinktank1985 said:wow..it seems I should have increased the number of options in the upper age limit...i thought most puas would have lost their virginity much earlier
Most guys when they first come to this site are not PUA but may actually be very bad with women. The reason they come here is for help, not to brag.
18th birthday, dad owned a bar and somehow inclined one of his attractive female bartenders to give me a present. It was really slick; I had no idea what was going on, all I knew was this hot chick who worked for my dad spontaneously became all into me.
To this very day the circumstances I speak of are just a theory, but they seem like the most reasonable one.
To this very day the circumstances I speak of are just a theory, but they seem like the most reasonable one.
The Logical Player
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seriously, you guys are like little boys
its LOSE, not LOOSE
when you lose something, that means you lost something
when you make something LOOSE, that means you make it "less tight"
i kind of think its geeky to always misspell the word lose of all things
its LOSE, not LOOSE
when you lose something, that means you lost something
when you make something LOOSE, that means you make it "less tight"
i kind of think its geeky to always misspell the word lose of all things
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
thinktank1985
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well loose has other connotations too other than "less tight"
http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/loose[2]
http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/loose[2]
Juice09
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18 years old, last November, with a girl I met in my Ceramics class. She was too drunk to drive home, so she spent the night at my house, the rest is history.
It's not a grammatical issue, it's a spelling issue. Grammar is about sentence structure. It's just one too many O's. And yes, after seeing it for a 928th time on the internet, it gets f*cking annoying.Jon55 said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.