Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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virginity

when did you loose your virginity

  • 12 and below

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  • 12-14

    Votes: 1 2.2%
  • 15-17

    Votes: 16 35.6%
  • 18-21

    Votes: 13 28.9%
  • 21 and above

    Votes: 15 33.3%

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Well,if you must know,I was 19 almost 20. For years,I was so depressed over the fact. I still haven't been laid in a long time to begin with. So getting over this hump has been harder than normal....what about you sir?
 

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23 years old and to a hooker. Beat that!®

Hell I still haven't had sex with a real girl. If you don't count hookers, 40 year old something swingers at a sex club and AFF I'd still be a virgin at 27.
 

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wow..it seems I should have increased the number of options in the upper age limit...i thought most puas would have lost their virginity much earlier :)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Aragon034

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thinktank1985 said:
wow..it seems I should have increased the number of options in the upper age limit...i thought most puas would have lost their virginity much earlier :)
Think of it this way, people coming to this site probably HAVEN'T and are here for that same reason.

then again, i lost mine at 15. to a chick at a rave in a washroom. Yeah, classy :|
 

Jon55

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Loosing virginity? I prefer to tighten it up.
 

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thinktank1985 said:
wow..it seems I should have increased the number of options in the upper age limit...i thought most puas would have lost their virginity much earlier :)
Agreeing with Aragon034,

Most guys when they first come to this site are not PUA but may actually be very bad with women. The reason they come here is for help, not to brag.
 

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18th birthday, dad owned a bar and somehow inclined one of his attractive female bartenders to give me a present. It was really slick; I had no idea what was going on, all I knew was this hot chick who worked for my dad spontaneously became all into me.

To this very day the circumstances I speak of are just a theory, but they seem like the most reasonable one.
 
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seriously, you guys are like little boys

its LOSE, not LOOSE

when you lose something, that means you lost something

when you make something LOOSE, that means you make it "less tight"

i kind of think its geeky to always misspell the word lose of all things
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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18 years old, last November, with a girl I met in my Ceramics class. She was too drunk to drive home, so she spent the night at my house, the rest is history.
 

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on day 2 to this chick i met in the delivery room

she gave me a nice welcome :yes:
 

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The Logical Player said:
seriously, you guys are like little boys
its LOSE, not LOOSE
when you lose something, that means you lost something
when you make something LOOSE, that means you make it "less tight"
i kind of think its geeky to always misspell the word lose of all things

Well since you're being nit-picky, it's not misspelling, it's poor grammar. But I agree with you. Lose, loose, they're, their, there, it's, its, etc.
 

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Jon55 said:
Well since you're being nit-picky, it's not misspelling, it's poor grammar. But I agree with you. Lose, loose, they're, their, there, it's, its, etc.
It's not a grammatical issue, it's a spelling issue. Grammar is about sentence structure. It's just one too many O's. And yes, after seeing it for a 928th time on the internet, it gets f*cking annoying.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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