thinktank1985
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so when did you loose your virginity?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
CapedCrusader08
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Well,if you must know,I was 19 almost 20. For years,I was so depressed over the fact. I still haven't been laid in a long time to begin with. So getting over this hump has been harder than normal....what about you sir?
thinktank1985
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well I am still to loose mine...but actively trying to do so... 
Maxtro
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23 years old and to a hooker. Beat that!®
Hell I still haven't had sex with a real girl. If you don't count hookers, 40 year old something swingers at a sex club and AFF I'd still be a virgin at 27.
Hell I still haven't had sex with a real girl. If you don't count hookers, 40 year old something swingers at a sex club and AFF I'd still be a virgin at 27.
thinktank1985
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wow..it seems I should have increased the number of options in the upper age limit...i thought most puas would have lost their virginity much earlier
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Think of it this way, people coming to this site probably HAVEN'T and are here for that same reason.thinktank1985 said:wow..it seems I should have increased the number of options in the upper age limit...i thought most puas would have lost their virginity much earlier
then again, i lost mine at 15. to a chick at a rave in a washroom. Yeah, classy :|
Maxtro
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Agreeing with Aragon034,thinktank1985 said:wow..it seems I should have increased the number of options in the upper age limit...i thought most puas would have lost their virginity much earlier
Most guys when they first come to this site are not PUA but may actually be very bad with women. The reason they come here is for help, not to brag.
18th birthday, dad owned a bar and somehow inclined one of his attractive female bartenders to give me a present. It was really slick; I had no idea what was going on, all I knew was this hot chick who worked for my dad spontaneously became all into me.
To this very day the circumstances I speak of are just a theory, but they seem like the most reasonable one.
To this very day the circumstances I speak of are just a theory, but they seem like the most reasonable one.
The Logical Player
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seriously, you guys are like little boys
its LOSE, not LOOSE
when you lose something, that means you lost something
when you make something LOOSE, that means you make it "less tight"
i kind of think its geeky to always misspell the word lose of all things
its LOSE, not LOOSE
when you lose something, that means you lost something
when you make something LOOSE, that means you make it "less tight"
i kind of think its geeky to always misspell the word lose of all things
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
thinktank1985
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well loose has other connotations too other than "less tight"
http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/loose[2]
http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/loose[2]
Juice09
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18 years old, last November, with a girl I met in my Ceramics class. She was too drunk to drive home, so she spent the night at my house, the rest is history.
It's not a grammatical issue, it's a spelling issue. Grammar is about sentence structure. It's just one too many O's. And yes, after seeing it for a 928th time on the internet, it gets f*cking annoying.Jon55 said:
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.