"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I took this check out last Saturday and we had a great time. She's been intitating and texting me all week. Last night we had tentative plans (both of us are busy) but it was pretty much a go. I had to list we to all day. Well, when I said what do you feel like doing she said she wants to stay at home and have drinks. She couldn't invite me over because we've only met once. She said we could do dinne on Sunday. Do you guys think I should not ask her? Or what should o do. I'm a little turned off
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Never ask a woman 'what do you feel like doing?'. That's a rookie error. Don't do that again EVER. It's weak.

If you're 'a little turned off, it's from how you handled things and leaves her wondering if you have a set.

She offered an alternative. Accept or don't. But if you're going to accept, pick the time and place.
 
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Tictac said:
Never ask a woman 'what do you feel like doing?'. That's a rookie error. Don't do that again EVER. It's weak.
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Yep.... If you are inviting her out... you are bringing her along to what you are doing. Asking her wants she wants to do is supplication and approval seeking, women really don't like this.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Tictac said:
Never ask a woman 'what do you feel like doing?'. That's a rookie error. Don't do that again EVER. It's weak.

If you're 'a little turned off, it's from how you handled things and leaves her wondering if you have a set.

She offered an alternative. Accept or don't. But if you're going to accept, pick the time and place.
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You fvcked up pretty bad in her eyes...one of the biggest and quickest ways to turn off a woman is to not lead. Never ask what they want to do. Let them know what you two will be doing together and then go from there.
 
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