Urgent Help

[tennisbuck12]

DJs

I took this check out last Saturday and we had a great time. She's been intitating and texting me all week. Last night we had tentative plans (both of us are busy) but it was pretty much a go. I had to list we to all day. Well, when I said what do you feel like doing she said she wants to stay at home and have drinks. She couldn't invite me over because we've only met once. She said we could do dinne on Sunday. Do you guys think I should not ask her? Or what should o do. I'm a little turned off

 

[Tictac]

Never ask a woman 'what do you feel like doing?'. That's a rookie error. Don't do that again EVER. It's weak.

If you're 'a little turned off, it's from how you handled things and leaves her wondering if you have a set.

She offered an alternative. Accept or don't. But if you're going to accept, pick the time and place.

 

[RangerMIke]

Never ask a woman 'what do you feel like doing?'. That's a rookie error. Don't do that again EVER. It's weak.

Yep.... If you are inviting her out... you are bringing her along to what you are doing. Asking her wants she wants to do is supplication and approval seeking, women really don't like this.

 

[tennisbuck12]

Noted. Thanks for the Intel.

I'm just going to drop her.

 

[Tictac]

Noted. Thanks for the Intel.

I'm just going to drop her.

Fold. Too bad too. She did offer you a shot.

Now learn the game.

 

[marmel75]

Never ask a woman 'what do you feel like doing?'. That's a rookie error. Don't do that again EVER. It's weak.

If you're 'a little turned off, it's from how you handled things and leaves her wondering if you have a set.

She offered an alternative. Accept or don't. But if you're going to accept, pick the time and place.

You fvcked up pretty bad in her eyes...one of the biggest and quickest ways to turn off a woman is to not lead. Never ask what they want to do. Let them know what you two will be doing together and then go from there.