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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

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Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ugly girls get upset when you check them out as opposed to hot ones?

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I noticed if I look at a hot girl and she notices me looking at her and we hold eye contact, she will look away and smile, whereas if they the girl is average/ugly, and I do the same, she gets upset and mutters to herself, what's up with that? And has anyone noticed this as well?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I live in Boston. It is positive for the hot chicks, but with the not so attractive or average ones they seem bothered.
 

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Haha, I love chatting.
Dont know bout the situation in the US, but it sounds like your hot too i guess.
The uglies are bothered that they even tried looking at you, cause there is no hope for them.
But whats the problem man? Hotties want you and ugs dispise you. Not everyone is going to be your friend and like you, thats why personality excist. Not fking everyone can be friends with everyone. Sounds like you to show off here : P
 

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mutambo said:
Haha, I love chatting.
Dont know bout the situation in the US, but it sounds like your hot too i guess.
The uglies are bothered that they even tried looking at you, cause there is no hope for them.
But whats the problem man? Hotties want you and ugs dispise you. Not everyone is going to be your friend and like you, thats why personality excist. Not fking everyone can be friends with everyone. Sounds like you to show off here : P
LOL nah bro I am not trying to show off! LOL! The thing is I would rather be with an ugly/average chick than a hot one right now, I know it sounds absurd but I like the idea that I am fooling with an average chick, with less guys wanting to check her out. But thing is man I started looking at them then they look and we hold eye contact and they turn away angrily. As I am creeping them out or something :p, I hope that is not the case.
 

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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My guess is the ug ones have low self esteem and as a result they are not comfortable with long eye contact like that and act that way as a result.
 

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nando said:
I noticed if I look at a hot girl and she notices me looking at her and we hold eye contact, she will look away and smile, whereas if they the girl is average/ugly, and I do the same, she gets upset and mutters to herself, what's up with that? And has anyone noticed this as well?
The pretty girl knows you are admiring her beauty and the ugly girl knows you are put off by her uglyness..
 

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DonGorgon said:
The pretty girl knows you are admiring her beauty and the ugly girl knows you are put off by her uglyness..
what about the average girls, but i am not put off by their ugliness either, like i don't look at 2-3's, but more like 4-6.
 

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DonGorgon said:
4S AND 6S ARE INSECURE MOST TIMES so they feel uncomfortable when you stare...
what would be a better way for me to convey interest to them?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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nando said:
what would be a better way for me to convey interest to them?
By turning and running in the opposite direction. I can see going after a 6 but nothing less. Don't chase UG's.
 

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DonGorgon said:
^^^true ... UGs lower your self esteem
i have this thing for ugs, cuz they are usually submissive and just agree with what i say
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

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Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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MacAvoy said:
Then go to online dating sites, there are plenty of UG's there.
nah man, i don't like that stuff, online dating is gay man, too many psychos.
 

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Daddy The Pimp said:
They may think that you are making fun of them or analyzing their moves to make fun with them or something . They may think that every COOL guy is against them .
Your right bro, maybe that is it. I remember once man, I was checking out this girl who was like a 6-7, and she was getting mad, and her friend who was a 8 would look back at me and smile.
 

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