"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ugly girls get upset when you check them out as opposed to hot ones?

nando

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I noticed if I look at a hot girl and she notices me looking at her and we hold eye contact, she will look away and smile, whereas if they the girl is average/ugly, and I do the same, she gets upset and mutters to herself, what's up with that? And has anyone noticed this as well?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I live in Boston. It is positive for the hot chicks, but with the not so attractive or average ones they seem bothered.
 

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Haha, I love chatting.
Dont know bout the situation in the US, but it sounds like your hot too i guess.
The uglies are bothered that they even tried looking at you, cause there is no hope for them.
But whats the problem man? Hotties want you and ugs dispise you. Not everyone is going to be your friend and like you, thats why personality excist. Not fking everyone can be friends with everyone. Sounds like you to show off here : P
 

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mutambo said:
Haha, I love chatting.
Dont know bout the situation in the US, but it sounds like your hot too i guess.
The uglies are bothered that they even tried looking at you, cause there is no hope for them.
But whats the problem man? Hotties want you and ugs dispise you. Not everyone is going to be your friend and like you, thats why personality excist. Not fking everyone can be friends with everyone. Sounds like you to show off here : P
LOL nah bro I am not trying to show off! LOL! The thing is I would rather be with an ugly/average chick than a hot one right now, I know it sounds absurd but I like the idea that I am fooling with an average chick, with less guys wanting to check her out. But thing is man I started looking at them then they look and we hold eye contact and they turn away angrily. As I am creeping them out or something :p, I hope that is not the case.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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My guess is the ug ones have low self esteem and as a result they are not comfortable with long eye contact like that and act that way as a result.
 

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nando said:
I noticed if I look at a hot girl and she notices me looking at her and we hold eye contact, she will look away and smile, whereas if they the girl is average/ugly, and I do the same, she gets upset and mutters to herself, what's up with that? And has anyone noticed this as well?
The pretty girl knows you are admiring her beauty and the ugly girl knows you are put off by her uglyness..
 

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DonGorgon said:
The pretty girl knows you are admiring her beauty and the ugly girl knows you are put off by her uglyness..
what about the average girls, but i am not put off by their ugliness either, like i don't look at 2-3's, but more like 4-6.
 

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DonGorgon said:
4S AND 6S ARE INSECURE MOST TIMES so they feel uncomfortable when you stare...
what would be a better way for me to convey interest to them?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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nando said:
what would be a better way for me to convey interest to them?
By turning and running in the opposite direction. I can see going after a 6 but nothing less. Don't chase UG's.
 

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DonGorgon said:
^^^true ... UGs lower your self esteem
i have this thing for ugs, cuz they are usually submissive and just agree with what i say
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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MacAvoy said:
Then go to online dating sites, there are plenty of UG's there.
nah man, i don't like that stuff, online dating is gay man, too many psychos.
 

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Daddy The Pimp said:
They may think that you are making fun of them or analyzing their moves to make fun with them or something . They may think that every COOL guy is against them .
Your right bro, maybe that is it. I remember once man, I was checking out this girl who was like a 6-7, and she was getting mad, and her friend who was a 8 would look back at me and smile.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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