"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ugly girls get upset when you check them out as opposed to hot ones?

nando

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I noticed if I look at a hot girl and she notices me looking at her and we hold eye contact, she will look away and smile, whereas if they the girl is average/ugly, and I do the same, she gets upset and mutters to herself, what's up with that? And has anyone noticed this as well?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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nando

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I live in Boston. It is positive for the hot chicks, but with the not so attractive or average ones they seem bothered.
 

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Haha, I love chatting.
Dont know bout the situation in the US, but it sounds like your hot too i guess.
The uglies are bothered that they even tried looking at you, cause there is no hope for them.
But whats the problem man? Hotties want you and ugs dispise you. Not everyone is going to be your friend and like you, thats why personality excist. Not fking everyone can be friends with everyone. Sounds like you to show off here : P
 

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mutambo said:
Haha, I love chatting.
Dont know bout the situation in the US, but it sounds like your hot too i guess.
The uglies are bothered that they even tried looking at you, cause there is no hope for them.
But whats the problem man? Hotties want you and ugs dispise you. Not everyone is going to be your friend and like you, thats why personality excist. Not fking everyone can be friends with everyone. Sounds like you to show off here : P
LOL nah bro I am not trying to show off! LOL! The thing is I would rather be with an ugly/average chick than a hot one right now, I know it sounds absurd but I like the idea that I am fooling with an average chick, with less guys wanting to check her out. But thing is man I started looking at them then they look and we hold eye contact and they turn away angrily. As I am creeping them out or something :p, I hope that is not the case.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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My guess is the ug ones have low self esteem and as a result they are not comfortable with long eye contact like that and act that way as a result.
 

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nando said:
I noticed if I look at a hot girl and she notices me looking at her and we hold eye contact, she will look away and smile, whereas if they the girl is average/ugly, and I do the same, she gets upset and mutters to herself, what's up with that? And has anyone noticed this as well?
The pretty girl knows you are admiring her beauty and the ugly girl knows you are put off by her uglyness..
 

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DonGorgon said:
The pretty girl knows you are admiring her beauty and the ugly girl knows you are put off by her uglyness..
what about the average girls, but i am not put off by their ugliness either, like i don't look at 2-3's, but more like 4-6.
 

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DonGorgon said:
4S AND 6S ARE INSECURE MOST TIMES so they feel uncomfortable when you stare...
what would be a better way for me to convey interest to them?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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nando said:
what would be a better way for me to convey interest to them?
By turning and running in the opposite direction. I can see going after a 6 but nothing less. Don't chase UG's.
 

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DonGorgon said:
^^^true ... UGs lower your self esteem
i have this thing for ugs, cuz they are usually submissive and just agree with what i say
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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MacAvoy said:
Then go to online dating sites, there are plenty of UG's there.
nah man, i don't like that stuff, online dating is gay man, too many psychos.
 

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Daddy The Pimp said:
They may think that you are making fun of them or analyzing their moves to make fun with them or something . They may think that every COOL guy is against them .
Your right bro, maybe that is it. I remember once man, I was checking out this girl who was like a 6-7, and she was getting mad, and her friend who was a 8 would look back at me and smile.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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