"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ugly girls get upset when you check them out as opposed to hot ones?

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I noticed if I look at a hot girl and she notices me looking at her and we hold eye contact, she will look away and smile, whereas if they the girl is average/ugly, and I do the same, she gets upset and mutters to herself, what's up with that? And has anyone noticed this as well?
 

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I live in Boston. It is positive for the hot chicks, but with the not so attractive or average ones they seem bothered.
 

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Haha, I love chatting.
Dont know bout the situation in the US, but it sounds like your hot too i guess.
The uglies are bothered that they even tried looking at you, cause there is no hope for them.
But whats the problem man? Hotties want you and ugs dispise you. Not everyone is going to be your friend and like you, thats why personality excist. Not fking everyone can be friends with everyone. Sounds like you to show off here : P
 

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mutambo said:
Haha, I love chatting.
Dont know bout the situation in the US, but it sounds like your hot too i guess.
The uglies are bothered that they even tried looking at you, cause there is no hope for them.
But whats the problem man? Hotties want you and ugs dispise you. Not everyone is going to be your friend and like you, thats why personality excist. Not fking everyone can be friends with everyone. Sounds like you to show off here : P
LOL nah bro I am not trying to show off! LOL! The thing is I would rather be with an ugly/average chick than a hot one right now, I know it sounds absurd but I like the idea that I am fooling with an average chick, with less guys wanting to check her out. But thing is man I started looking at them then they look and we hold eye contact and they turn away angrily. As I am creeping them out or something :p, I hope that is not the case.
 

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That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My guess is the ug ones have low self esteem and as a result they are not comfortable with long eye contact like that and act that way as a result.
 

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nando said:
I noticed if I look at a hot girl and she notices me looking at her and we hold eye contact, she will look away and smile, whereas if they the girl is average/ugly, and I do the same, she gets upset and mutters to herself, what's up with that? And has anyone noticed this as well?
The pretty girl knows you are admiring her beauty and the ugly girl knows you are put off by her uglyness..
 

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DonGorgon said:
The pretty girl knows you are admiring her beauty and the ugly girl knows you are put off by her uglyness..
what about the average girls, but i am not put off by their ugliness either, like i don't look at 2-3's, but more like 4-6.
 

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DonGorgon said:
4S AND 6S ARE INSECURE MOST TIMES so they feel uncomfortable when you stare...
what would be a better way for me to convey interest to them?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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nando said:
what would be a better way for me to convey interest to them?
By turning and running in the opposite direction. I can see going after a 6 but nothing less. Don't chase UG's.
 

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DonGorgon said:
^^^true ... UGs lower your self esteem
i have this thing for ugs, cuz they are usually submissive and just agree with what i say
 

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I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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MacAvoy said:
Then go to online dating sites, there are plenty of UG's there.
nah man, i don't like that stuff, online dating is gay man, too many psychos.
 

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Daddy The Pimp said:
They may think that you are making fun of them or analyzing their moves to make fun with them or something . They may think that every COOL guy is against them .
Your right bro, maybe that is it. I remember once man, I was checking out this girl who was like a 6-7, and she was getting mad, and her friend who was a 8 would look back at me and smile.
 

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