I noticed if I look at a hot girl and she notices me looking at her and we hold eye contact, she will look away and smile, whereas if they the girl is average/ugly, and I do the same, she gets upset and mutters to herself, what's up with that? And has anyone noticed this as well?
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Ugly girls get upset when you check them out as opposed to hot ones?
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Dont know bout the situation in the US, but it sounds like your hot too i guess.
The uglies are bothered that they even tried looking at you, cause there is no hope for them.
But whats the problem man? Hotties want you and ugs dispise you. Not everyone is going to be your friend and like you, thats why personality excist. Not fking everyone can be friends with everyone. Sounds like you to show off here : P
Dont know bout the situation in the US, but it sounds like your hot too i guess.
The uglies are bothered that they even tried looking at you, cause there is no hope for them.
But whats the problem man? Hotties want you and ugs dispise you. Not everyone is going to be your friend and like you, thats why personality excist. Not fking everyone can be friends with everyone. Sounds like you to show off here : P
LOL nah bro I am not trying to show off! LOL! The thing is I would rather be with an ugly/average chick than a hot one right now, I know it sounds absurd but I like the idea that I am fooling with an average chick, with less guys wanting to check her out. But thing is man I started looking at them then they look and we hold eye contact and they turn away angrily. As I am creeping them out or somethingmutambo said:
, I hope that is not the case."You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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My guess is the ug ones have low self esteem and as a result they are not comfortable with long eye contact like that and act that way as a result.
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The pretty girl knows you are admiring her beauty and the ugly girl knows you are put off by her uglyness..nando said:
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4S AND 6S ARE INSECURE MOST TIMES so they feel uncomfortable when you stare...nando said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Speak to them and smile.
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By turning and running in the opposite direction. I can see going after a 6 but nothing less. Don't chase UG's.nando said:
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^^^true ... UGs lower your self esteem
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They may think that you are making fun of them or analyzing their moves to make fun with them or something . They may think that every COOL guy is against them .
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Then go to online dating sites, there are plenty of UG's there.nando said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.