"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Top signs a girl is blowing you off

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when you call her phone and she asks who is this even though you've called he multiple time already....*happened to a friend of mine*
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ezio said:
when you call her phone and she asks who is this even though you've called he multiple time already....*happened to a friend of mine*
"a friend of mine".
 

Who Dares Win

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TillTheEndOfTime said:
If she's not excited or enthusiastic about going out with you (believe me you will know when she is), it is going nowhere. That pretty much sums up everything.
I strongly agree here, to which I add that your gut is the ultimate gauge following this first evaluation.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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#32. she don't give you counter offer if she cant come on the suggested date or at least trying to negotiate another time
 

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#33
Let's get together when everyone meets up next time.

Translation:
Fück off for now, but I'll put up with you around other people because I have no choice.
 

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She doesn't return phone calls and claims her phone wasn't working. Lamest excuse there is.
 

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#34

When you ask a chick out, and she doesn't like ANY of your date ideas---and then can't (WON'T) offer any date recommendations for the two of you herself.




By the way, I did a show awhile back where a guy called in complaining about running into too many Flaky Chicks.

It's appropriate for me to post the link to it here:

The Flake Alert: Five Warning Signs That You're About To Get Stood Up!


There's enough Intel being dispensed on that show to prevent MOST guys from ever being easily blindsided by DISINTERESTED women again.


RESPECT.


V.U.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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SpazzAttackk said:
When her mouth is wrapped around your dvck. Thats a tell-tale sign!
Ach - you beat me to it :crackup:
 

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This is sad - really sad

Most men try to 'decipher' a woman's encrypted message inside-out, left-to-right, diagnoal-hexagonal, present-past-future. Men who have NO OPTIONS try to hard to logically illogicaly think themselves into a deducted conclusion that a woman is interested based on a tiny unsubstantial amount of evidence:

- Oh yeah, she didn't reply to my text, but it was after 9pm! she probably went to bed early (bs)

- Maybe she is really sick... (bs)

- She must be playing hard to get (bs)

- She looked at me .00005 seconds longer than other people (bs)

- Wait, did she touch me as she walked by? Was that kino? (bs)

- Her leg is crossed and facing towards me (bs)



The simple thing is, if you don't get a STRAIGHT FORWARD answer and have to guess on the response, you should be hitting the NEXT button.

A woman fully interested in you will make no mistakes about a clear response to seeing you.

Exodus
 

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GotED? said:
This is sad - really sad

Most men try to 'decipher' a woman's encrypted message inside-out, left-to-right, diagnoal-hexagonal, present-past-future. Men who have NO OPTIONS try to hard to logically illogicaly think themselves into a deducted conclusion that a woman is interested based on a tiny unsubstantial amount of evidence:

- Oh yeah, she didn't reply to my text, but it was after 9pm! she probably went to bed early (bs)

- Maybe she is really sick... (bs)

- She must be playing hard to get (bs)

- She looked at me .00005 seconds longer than other people (bs)

- Wait, did she touch me as she walked by? Was that kino? (bs)

- Her leg is crossed and facing towards me (bs)



The simple thing is, if you don't get a STRAIGHT FORWARD answer and have to guess on the response, you should be hitting the NEXT button.

A woman fully interested in you will make no mistakes about a clear response to seeing you.

Exodus
Are you done editing?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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GotED? said:
I will make it purple just for you.


Can you take the italics off and make it bold too? Youll probably get the attention youre seeking. Makes you look more manly, italics is too girly

Exodus
 

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35. when she says "i like talking to you"
36. when you call her but every time she texts you back saying sorry i missed your call and never returns your call or suggest to call you again

37. when she says she really wants to talk to you and skype you but is just too busy or ill to do so. No counteroffers

38. when she brings a friend with her ( thats already listed i think!)
39. when you travel all teh way to another city to see her and she says "dont make a girl a reason"

generally i agree with what most people have said. Your gut knows best! listen to it
 

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If she tells you she's busy during the week but can hangout only on weekends, get ready to be blown off.

If she uses her kid as an excuse to cancel by saying "Little Jonny is planning something for me for Mothers Day". Problem is, is that Little Jonny is 5 and can't pull up his pants or tie his shoes but he's got the mental capacity to "plan something for Mothers Day". Oh, and he's 5 so you know he hasn't got any money.
 

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Victory Unlimited said:
Here are few for you:

1. When she claims to not "know" if she'll be free or not on the day that you ask her to go out with you on a date.

2. When she "suddenly" tells you that her cousin, her best friend from out of town, or her relatives have come to town on the day she was supposed to go out with you.

3. When she calls you @ 11am to cancel a date you have with her at 7pm that same night because she's not "feeling well". (What she's telling you is that she ain't even PLANNING on trying to feel better to go out with yo' ass 8 HOURS LATER!!!)

4. On the day of the date itself: When she claims to have FORGOTTEN that you even asked her out in the first place!

5. When she goes out with you but ENDS THE DATE early----claiming she has to get up early in the morning or she has to go pick her kids, etc.

6. When she agrees to go out with you------but surprises you by bringing someone on the date "with her"------to block you from getting anywhere near close to her.

I could go on. But I'll let the other So Suavers chime in...

V.U.
#5 happened to me. Funny thing was that she showed signs of interest in other ways. She went along with my plans, returned my text msgs, etc. But on our second date she ended it early with a lame excuse totally out of the blue. I know she has an ex that she really liked. Maybe she got a text and they're getting back together?

I actually bought it for a while. Then I deleted her number and deleted her off of FB.

Story ended, next plate. Her loss. I'm going out with a cute girl tonight.
 

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Dust 2 Dust said:
She doesn't return phone calls and claims her phone wasn't working. Lamest excuse there is.
LOL I don't think there's a guy alive that hasn't gotten this one!

One time, this Asian chick was telling me the lie as she was making it up, but she wasn't fully rehearsed yet. Something to the effect of "my texts don't come in on the weekends because I have it through the company and the texts get re-routed through their systems, then they come to my phone, but only on the weekdays"...WTF!!?? lol

Blame it on the cell: the lamest büllṣhit excuses ever!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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