You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
cope. all your exes have a count of 10+ and theyre enjoying life while youre posting on forum. keep coping
LMAO, OP is forum-maxxing thoughShe’s sunglasses-maxxing to compensate.
Actually, I was watching videos from a new MGTOW author about women hitting the wall, and these examples were just too overwhelming to keep to myself.LMAO, OP is forum-maxxing though
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
These are the videos that I am watching!Check out the youtube series "The wall defeats them all" for more.
PlentyYou do realize that was 32 years ago right? Who is hot in their mid 60’s?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Me, for one, I say with all humility... Well, early 60s... My fiance for two.You do realize that was 32 years ago right? Who is hot in their mid 60’s?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Yeah, but what about that picture of Tara Reid that @MatureDJ posted in another thread (see below)? She's not fat at all, and her face looks okay, but yikes what happened to her below the neck? Looks kind of like what I might expect bad liposuction to look like, but that's just one problem of many. When it comes to the wall, I wonder how much having children contributes? The unborn literally leech off thier mothers' bodies.I see plenty of hot ladies in their 50's & 60's. They managed to keep the weight off, so gravity has way less overall effect.
Old skin loses elasticity. Gravity pulls on fat. Sagging happens.
Post weight loss sag.Poor Kelly McGilliis, she's been the poster child for the wall for years now. Doesn't help that she turned out to be lesbian and adopted a fairly butch look.
Yeah, but what about that picture of Tara Reid that @MatureDJ posted in another thread (see below)? She's not fat at all, and her face looks okay, but yikes what happened to her below the neck? Looks kind of like what I might expect bad liposuction to look like, but that's just one problem of many. When it comes to the wall, I wonder how much having children contributes? The unborn literally leech off thier mothers' bodies.
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Janice D1ckinson mouth could even turn lesser angels into thinking of taking a trip to the darkest pits of hell as a place of temporary refuge and solace.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.