"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Top Gun babe Kelly McGillis has hit the "Great Wall of China" wall!
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
cope. all your exes have a count of 10+ and theyre enjoying life while youre posting on forum. keep coping
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LMAO, OP is forum-maxxing though
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Actually, I was watching videos from a new MGTOW author about women hitting the wall, and these examples were just too overwhelming to keep to myself.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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These are the videos that I am watching!
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Me, for one, I say with all humility... Well, early 60s... My fiance for two.
Of course, the point is that men tend to age gracefully while women hit the wall at 500 mph and experience massive damage to their SMV and desirability.
Fortunately there is a tiny minority of women who beat the odds and stay very well preserved right through their 60s, even into their 70s completely naturally. But most of them hit the wall and become either disgusting or invisible to us. The wall is the Great Equalizer.
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Man can be productive and have kids till their late 50s most of the times and even later sometimes, thats why they keep a decent shape (as long as they dont abuse food and lazyness) and a decent productivity.
Women on the other side as long as they are beautiful dont need to be productive and once they are expired they have no purpose in being attractive.
Nature makes things with a different timing than human policy maker, especially those who came in the last 50 years.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
wifehunter
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Old skin loses elasticity. Gravity pulls on fat. Sagging happens.
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Yeah, but what about that picture of Tara Reid that @MatureDJ posted in another thread (see below)? She's not fat at all, and her face looks okay, but yikes what happened to her below the neck? Looks kind of like what I might expect bad liposuction to look like, but that's just one problem of many. When it comes to the wall, I wonder how much having children contributes? The unborn literally leech off thier mothers' bodies.
wifehunter
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Post weight loss sag.Poor Kelly McGilliis, she's been the poster child for the wall for years now. Doesn't help that she turned out to be lesbian and adopted a fairly butch look.
Yeah, but what about that picture of Tara Reid that @MatureDJ posted in another thread (see below)? She's not fat at all, and her face looks okay, but yikes what happened to her below the neck? Looks kind of like what I might expect bad liposuction to look like, but that's just one problem of many. When it comes to the wall, I wonder how much having children contributes? The unborn literally leech off thier mothers' bodies.
Janice D1ckinson mouth could even turn lesser angels into thinking of taking a trip to the darkest pits of hell as a place of temporary refuge and solace.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.