You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
cope. all your exes have a count of 10+ and theyre enjoying life while youre posting on forum. keep coping
LMAO, OP is forum-maxxing thoughShe’s sunglasses-maxxing to compensate.
Actually, I was watching videos from a new MGTOW author about women hitting the wall, and these examples were just too overwhelming to keep to myself.LMAO, OP is forum-maxxing though
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
These are the videos that I am watching!Check out the youtube series "The wall defeats them all" for more.
PlentyYou do realize that was 32 years ago right? Who is hot in their mid 60’s?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Me, for one, I say with all humility... Well, early 60s... My fiance for two.You do realize that was 32 years ago right? Who is hot in their mid 60’s?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Yeah, but what about that picture of Tara Reid that @MatureDJ posted in another thread (see below)? She's not fat at all, and her face looks okay, but yikes what happened to her below the neck? Looks kind of like what I might expect bad liposuction to look like, but that's just one problem of many. When it comes to the wall, I wonder how much having children contributes? The unborn literally leech off thier mothers' bodies.I see plenty of hot ladies in their 50's & 60's. They managed to keep the weight off, so gravity has way less overall effect.
Old skin loses elasticity. Gravity pulls on fat. Sagging happens.
Post weight loss sag.Poor Kelly McGilliis, she's been the poster child for the wall for years now. Doesn't help that she turned out to be lesbian and adopted a fairly butch look.
Yeah, but what about that picture of Tara Reid that @MatureDJ posted in another thread (see below)? She's not fat at all, and her face looks okay, but yikes what happened to her below the neck? Looks kind of like what I might expect bad liposuction to look like, but that's just one problem of many. When it comes to the wall, I wonder how much having children contributes? The unborn literally leech off thier mothers' bodies.
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Janice D1ckinson mouth could even turn lesser angels into thinking of taking a trip to the darkest pits of hell as a place of temporary refuge and solace.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.