“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Toned and Defined vs Muscular and Big

NeedToImprove

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which of you guys are looking for? personally i dont wanna look like some scharznegger or one of those big guys at the gym. just wanna burn my fat, get a lean defined body, which can show a good sixpack, that's what im aiming for the next months/year. anyone agrees that the disco bouncer image is kinda a past thing?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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somewhere between the two - I want a 42" chest with damn good abs...

but then I want to improve my lifts as much as possible...

and yeah girls prefer smaller but toned, they have no taste I'm afraid!
 

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I guess a lot of it depends on your body type. Some of us will just never have that Bruce Lee body, and some of us will never have Arnold's either!

At 5-6 & 155lbs, I don't really think that 'disco bouncer image' is one I'll ever attain lol. It's alright, I like the lean and ripped look a lot better, now if I can just fine tune my diet a little...
 

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Big, wide, and ripped for me.
 

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Definitely huge. What's the point of being small? I'll just step on your neck and steal your woman, and what are you going to do about it anyway girly man? Nothin'!
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Warboss Alex

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howardalex said:
and yeah girls prefer smaller but toned
just like guys 'prefer' big breasts? everyone's different. don't let that stop you, if you want to be be big, be big.. people (girls) will appreciate you more for doing what YOU want rather than going along with what you think they do.
 

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i just got back from a softball tournament... a bunch of the guys there were small and thin. I don't know where it's come from but lately skinny guys just look sickly to me now. I am jealous they're walking around with abs but they're flat and boring everywhere else. I'd eat them on a sandwich but they're too stringy.
 

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Warboss Alex said:
just like guys 'prefer' big breasts? everyone's different. don't let that stop you, if you want to be be big, be big.. people (girls) will appreciate you more for doing what YOU want rather than going along with what you think they do.
true...what I mean is, that most girls go for that...and yeah I'm not one of these guys who says "eww all that muscle is horrible" - I'd love to get huge but it seems fewer girls like it :(
 

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You'll get more girls if you assert yourself in training the way YOU want - just because it shows confidence of character.
 
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