"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Toned and Defined vs Muscular and Big

NeedToImprove

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which of you guys are looking for? personally i dont wanna look like some scharznegger or one of those big guys at the gym. just wanna burn my fat, get a lean defined body, which can show a good sixpack, that's what im aiming for the next months/year. anyone agrees that the disco bouncer image is kinda a past thing?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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somewhere between the two - I want a 42" chest with damn good abs...

but then I want to improve my lifts as much as possible...

and yeah girls prefer smaller but toned, they have no taste I'm afraid!
 

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I guess a lot of it depends on your body type. Some of us will just never have that Bruce Lee body, and some of us will never have Arnold's either!

At 5-6 & 155lbs, I don't really think that 'disco bouncer image' is one I'll ever attain lol. It's alright, I like the lean and ripped look a lot better, now if I can just fine tune my diet a little...
 

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Big, wide, and ripped for me.
 

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Definitely huge. What's the point of being small? I'll just step on your neck and steal your woman, and what are you going to do about it anyway girly man? Nothin'!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Warboss Alex

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howardalex said:
and yeah girls prefer smaller but toned
just like guys 'prefer' big breasts? everyone's different. don't let that stop you, if you want to be be big, be big.. people (girls) will appreciate you more for doing what YOU want rather than going along with what you think they do.
 

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i just got back from a softball tournament... a bunch of the guys there were small and thin. I don't know where it's come from but lately skinny guys just look sickly to me now. I am jealous they're walking around with abs but they're flat and boring everywhere else. I'd eat them on a sandwich but they're too stringy.
 

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Warboss Alex said:
just like guys 'prefer' big breasts? everyone's different. don't let that stop you, if you want to be be big, be big.. people (girls) will appreciate you more for doing what YOU want rather than going along with what you think they do.
true...what I mean is, that most girls go for that...and yeah I'm not one of these guys who says "eww all that muscle is horrible" - I'd love to get huge but it seems fewer girls like it :(
 

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You'll get more girls if you assert yourself in training the way YOU want - just because it shows confidence of character.
 
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