"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Tom Leykis Show is Back!

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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TheMale said:
what it's about ?
From the shows I have heard, it's about some repulsive couch potato teaching guys how to be bitter and distrusting towards women.

Think male version of Rosie O'Donnell, except more angry.

Seriously, just Google a picture of him and ask yourself if this is a guy who does well with women.
 
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seriously i started to listen to him, and i gotta say he 's saying some good stuff.

he is really disrespectful toward woman treat them like a piece of sh!t.
i'm not a feminist supporter, or even my first time on seduction, but i think you need to respect everyone, men or women.
not putting them on a pedestal but human respect, even though after starting to understand feminism, i have a little respect toward women

anyway no real inner game, but most of his stuff is bvllsh!ting, not a real DJ.

what do you guys here thinking about him, about his show, about what he's saying ???
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The problem with the seduction community, much like everything else, is that you have extremists. The guy does make some valid points here and there, and it's very good advice for guys not to put women on pedestals, not to be treated like a doormat and so on. But this guy tries to portray most women as twisted, evil creatures who are out to screw us guys over.

This is a natural defensive and bitter response when you're not having much luck with women. The problem is, when you get caught up in that negative mindset, it becomes even more difficult to attract women and make friends. Nobody wants to be around a whiner.

Instead of trying to blame others for his shortcomings, a better attitude would be to look at himself, ask why he's experiencing this kind of reaction from women and what he can do to change that.
 

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Jariel said:
Instead of trying to blame others for his shortcomings, a better attitude would be to look at himself, ask why he's experiencing this kind of reaction from women and what he can do to change that.
but that's what we want to avoid here on sosuave, to put the women in the center of our world.

if i'm asking myself why i get bad result with woman and i'm working to change that so i can finally attract women, my center of world is WOMEN.

true ?
 

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TheMale said:
but that's what we want to avoid here on sosuave, to put the women in the center of our world.

if i'm asking myself why i get bad result with woman and i'm working to change that so i can finally attract women, my center of world is WOMEN.

true ?
I think the whole not caring about women philosophy gets wildly exaggerated and is not really authentic. Of course, it's important to have hobbies, friends and a life outside of women, but there's nothing wrong with pursuing women, sex, even love if that's what you want. And like anything in life, if you want something you have to work for it.

We're all here on SoSuave because we want more women to like us and want to be with us. Even those who seek detachment from their lust for women tend to do it as a strategy to get more women.

I believe it's more important not to make one particular woman the centre of your world and by improving yourself to become mroe successful with women, you'll have more options and find it much easier to be carefree. If one women disrespects you or just isn't upto your standards, you can just move onto the next.
 

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Jariel said:
I believe it's more important not to make one particular woman the centre of your world.
never tought about it that way !
you made point here.

but you right i listen to him for 1hour, and he's so hater about women in genral, call them b!tches etc.

sure women are really fake, have fake intention but you cant make a generality.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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His advice is gold. I do not agree with everything, but he makes good points. And I have seen him around the LA club club scene and he is always with hot girls, so yeah I think he gets laid
 
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