"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Tom Leykis Show is Back!
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
From the shows I have heard, it's about some repulsive couch potato teaching guys how to be bitter and distrusting towards women.TheMale said:
Think male version of Rosie O'Donnell, except more angry.
Seriously, just Google a picture of him and ask yourself if this is a guy who does well with women.
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seriously i started to listen to him, and i gotta say he 's saying some good stuff.
he is really disrespectful toward woman treat them like a piece of sh!t.
i'm not a feminist supporter, or even my first time on seduction, but i think you need to respect everyone, men or women.
not putting them on a pedestal but human respect, even though after starting to understand feminism, i have a little respect toward women
anyway no real inner game, but most of his stuff is bvllsh!ting, not a real DJ.
what do you guys here thinking about him, about his show, about what he's saying ???
he is really disrespectful toward woman treat them like a piece of sh!t.
i'm not a feminist supporter, or even my first time on seduction, but i think you need to respect everyone, men or women.
not putting them on a pedestal but human respect, even though after starting to understand feminism, i have a little respect toward women
anyway no real inner game, but most of his stuff is bvllsh!ting, not a real DJ.
what do you guys here thinking about him, about his show, about what he's saying ???
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
The problem with the seduction community, much like everything else, is that you have extremists. The guy does make some valid points here and there, and it's very good advice for guys not to put women on pedestals, not to be treated like a doormat and so on. But this guy tries to portray most women as twisted, evil creatures who are out to screw us guys over.
This is a natural defensive and bitter response when you're not having much luck with women. The problem is, when you get caught up in that negative mindset, it becomes even more difficult to attract women and make friends. Nobody wants to be around a whiner.
Instead of trying to blame others for his shortcomings, a better attitude would be to look at himself, ask why he's experiencing this kind of reaction from women and what he can do to change that.
This is a natural defensive and bitter response when you're not having much luck with women. The problem is, when you get caught up in that negative mindset, it becomes even more difficult to attract women and make friends. Nobody wants to be around a whiner.
Instead of trying to blame others for his shortcomings, a better attitude would be to look at himself, ask why he's experiencing this kind of reaction from women and what he can do to change that.
but that's what we want to avoid here on sosuave, to put the women in the center of our world.Jariel said:
if i'm asking myself why i get bad result with woman and i'm working to change that so i can finally attract women, my center of world is WOMEN.
true ?
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This guys is hilarious, like seriously.
I think the whole not caring about women philosophy gets wildly exaggerated and is not really authentic. Of course, it's important to have hobbies, friends and a life outside of women, but there's nothing wrong with pursuing women, sex, even love if that's what you want. And like anything in life, if you want something you have to work for it.TheMale said:
We're all here on SoSuave because we want more women to like us and want to be with us. Even those who seek detachment from their lust for women tend to do it as a strategy to get more women.
I believe it's more important not to make one particular woman the centre of your world and by improving yourself to become mroe successful with women, you'll have more options and find it much easier to be carefree. If one women disrespects you or just isn't upto your standards, you can just move onto the next.
never tought about it that way !Jariel said:
you made point here.
but you right i listen to him for 1hour, and he's so hater about women in genral, call them b!tches etc.
sure women are really fake, have fake intention but you cant make a generality.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
if you don't like Leykis
...frankly you are too stupid to live on planet Earth
listen to his wisdom and shut up
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=amwNk2Rgzww&feature=relmfu
...frankly you are too stupid to live on planet Earth
listen to his wisdom and shut up
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=amwNk2Rgzww&feature=relmfu