"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Tom Leykis Show is Back!
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
From the shows I have heard, it's about some repulsive couch potato teaching guys how to be bitter and distrusting towards women.TheMale said:
Think male version of Rosie O'Donnell, except more angry.
Seriously, just Google a picture of him and ask yourself if this is a guy who does well with women.
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seriously i started to listen to him, and i gotta say he 's saying some good stuff.
he is really disrespectful toward woman treat them like a piece of sh!t.
i'm not a feminist supporter, or even my first time on seduction, but i think you need to respect everyone, men or women.
not putting them on a pedestal but human respect, even though after starting to understand feminism, i have a little respect toward women
anyway no real inner game, but most of his stuff is bvllsh!ting, not a real DJ.
what do you guys here thinking about him, about his show, about what he's saying ???
he is really disrespectful toward woman treat them like a piece of sh!t.
i'm not a feminist supporter, or even my first time on seduction, but i think you need to respect everyone, men or women.
not putting them on a pedestal but human respect, even though after starting to understand feminism, i have a little respect toward women
anyway no real inner game, but most of his stuff is bvllsh!ting, not a real DJ.
what do you guys here thinking about him, about his show, about what he's saying ???
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
The problem with the seduction community, much like everything else, is that you have extremists. The guy does make some valid points here and there, and it's very good advice for guys not to put women on pedestals, not to be treated like a doormat and so on. But this guy tries to portray most women as twisted, evil creatures who are out to screw us guys over.
This is a natural defensive and bitter response when you're not having much luck with women. The problem is, when you get caught up in that negative mindset, it becomes even more difficult to attract women and make friends. Nobody wants to be around a whiner.
Instead of trying to blame others for his shortcomings, a better attitude would be to look at himself, ask why he's experiencing this kind of reaction from women and what he can do to change that.
This is a natural defensive and bitter response when you're not having much luck with women. The problem is, when you get caught up in that negative mindset, it becomes even more difficult to attract women and make friends. Nobody wants to be around a whiner.
Instead of trying to blame others for his shortcomings, a better attitude would be to look at himself, ask why he's experiencing this kind of reaction from women and what he can do to change that.
but that's what we want to avoid here on sosuave, to put the women in the center of our world.Jariel said:
if i'm asking myself why i get bad result with woman and i'm working to change that so i can finally attract women, my center of world is WOMEN.
true ?
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This guys is hilarious, like seriously.
I think the whole not caring about women philosophy gets wildly exaggerated and is not really authentic. Of course, it's important to have hobbies, friends and a life outside of women, but there's nothing wrong with pursuing women, sex, even love if that's what you want. And like anything in life, if you want something you have to work for it.TheMale said:
We're all here on SoSuave because we want more women to like us and want to be with us. Even those who seek detachment from their lust for women tend to do it as a strategy to get more women.
I believe it's more important not to make one particular woman the centre of your world and by improving yourself to become mroe successful with women, you'll have more options and find it much easier to be carefree. If one women disrespects you or just isn't upto your standards, you can just move onto the next.
never tought about it that way !Jariel said:
you made point here.
but you right i listen to him for 1hour, and he's so hater about women in genral, call them b!tches etc.
sure women are really fake, have fake intention but you cant make a generality.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
if you don't like Leykis
...frankly you are too stupid to live on planet Earth
listen to his wisdom and shut up
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=amwNk2Rgzww&feature=relmfu
...frankly you are too stupid to live on planet Earth
listen to his wisdom and shut up
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=amwNk2Rgzww&feature=relmfu