"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
"this" or "that"
- Thread starter dip
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Slimijs
Senior Don Juan
the threesome, of course
cats or dogs?
Have sex with HB10 but never remember it.
- OR -
Have sex with HB8 and be able to remember it.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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big **** or average ****?
Abbott
Master Don Juan
Saine you didn't post a question.Originally posted by Saine
Assume that's d ick, I'll say big ****.
Tell MVPlaya to stop calling me a chick or call HIM a chick.
(btw, my penis is big!
Have sex with an anorexic woman or a very fat (600+lbs) woman?
Abbott
Master Don Juan
Oh. Very well then.
Tell him to stop calling you a chick.
Now my question:
Have sex with an anorexic woman or a very fat (600+lbs) woman?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
IrReSiStIbLe
Senior Don Juan
Who would you rather screw- Jenna Jameson or Kobe Thai?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Abbott
Master Don Juan
See Pook one-on-one.Originally posted by Saine
What's so hard about that question anyway?
See Pook in real life ALONE (face2face teacher)
or
See Pook in real life GROUP (group2people teacher)
Have Blindness or deafness?
Ben
Saine, the first answer ("write") meant typing them up on SoSuave, the second ("make") meant going out there and chatting to your local HBs and experience an FR. You picked writing, interesting.
Grow 2" taller
or
Grow 2" 'longer' (you know, downstairs)
IrReSiStIbLe
Senior Don Juan
NBA or NFL?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.