"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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This One Illustration Proves my Point

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This is the difference between high sexual attraction, and low sexual attraction.

It is the difference between being at work and getting an HR complaint for sexual harassment, and not.

It is the difference between being in the public and having a woman flip out on you, or call the police, and not.

It is the difference between smashing on the first night that you meet her (or very soon thereafter), or having to take her on 3-4 dates before you get the goodies.

@Sega Genesis

How a woman behaves towards you, is based upon her level of attraction towards you.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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the point here is very true. it extends the other direction also. hot women get away with things at work where ugly ones would not. our problem is the continuing effort to hide or deny this. much better to just openly admit it.

for example a hot woman does not often need to be good at anything other than being hot, to advance.
 

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@Sega Genesis

How a woman behaves towards you, is based upon her level of attraction towards you.

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I actually don't disagree with this^^. And that meme is funny! :rofl:

However...

This is quite different from our discussion on the other thread about approaching a random woman in public telling her you want to suck her t*ts, suck your c0ck, f*ck her or any other comment of a sexual nature.. On the street, grocery store, or your favorites Target and Walmart.

Which YOU seem to think is okay.

It is not. Again it is considered public sexual harassment and against the law.

Look Venom I don't write the laws, okay? It is our job as responsible citizens to learn them and abide by them.

If you choose not to, have at it! LOL No skin off.my nose.

It may be fine and turn out great! Which according to you it has! Fabulous. I'm happy you've found something that works!

On the other hand, there may be that one woman who isn’t cool with it and makes life difficult for you in a legal sense. And good luck should that ever happen

That's all I am saying....
 
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I actually don't disagree with this^^. And that meme is funny! :rofl:

However...

This is quite different from our discussion on the other thread about approaching a random women in public telling her you want to suck her t*ts, suck your c0ck, f*ck her or any other comment of a sexual nature.. On the street, grocery store, or your favorites Target and Walmart.

Which YOU seem to think is okay.
It's the same concept, SG.

It is not. Again it is considered public sexual harassment and against the law.

Look Venom I don't write the laws, okay? It is our job as responsible citizens to learn them and abide by them.
You cannot sexually harass someone, if the person is sexually attracted to you.

I'm trying to figure out what part of that you ain't understanding.

If you choose not to, have at it! LOL No skin off.my nose.

It may be fine and turn out great!

On the other hand, there may be that one woman who isn’t cool with it and makes life difficult for you in a legal sense.

That's all I am saying....
I don't use Mode One Hardcore in the public.

Thanks for your concern though.
 

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You cannot sexually harass someone, if the person is sexually attracted to you.

I'm trying to figure out what part of that you ain't understanding.
Lol, ok man YOU win! .:lol:

Can you let this go now?

It's all good.

Promise.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I actually don't disagree with this^^. And that meme is funny! :rofl:

However...

This is quite different from our discussion on the other thread about approaching a random woman in public telling her you want to suck her t*ts, suck your c0ck, f*ck her or any other comment of a sexual nature.. On the street, grocery store, or your favorites Target and Walmart.

Which YOU seem to think is okay.

It is not. Again it is considered public sexual harassment and against the law.

Look Venom I don't write the laws, okay? It is our job as responsible citizens to learn them and abide by them.

If you choose not to, have at it! LOL No skin off.my nose.

It may be fine and turn out great! Which according to you it has! Fabulous. I'm happy you've found something that works!

On the other hand, there may be that one woman who isn’t cool with it and makes life difficult for you in a legal sense. And good luck should that ever happen

That's all I am saying....
This would be like walking up to someone and saying "Hey I really like that car you are driving" And then demand to have it since you like it.
 
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Resist the thread hijack attempts dudes...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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This is the difference between high sexual attraction, and low sexual attraction.

It is the difference between being at work and getting an HR complaint for sexual harassment, and not.

It is the difference between being in the public and having a woman flip out on you, or call the police, and not.

It is the difference between smashing on the first night that you meet her (or very soon thereafter), or having to take her on 3-4 dates before you get the goodies.

@Sega Genesis

How a woman behaves towards you, is based upon her level of attraction towards you.

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Are you familiar with the concept of binary thinking?

Also, Lemonquesha?? Are meme makers subject to DEI quotas nowadays, just like Hollywood?
 

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This is the difference between high sexual attraction, and low sexual attraction.

It is the difference between being at work and getting an HR complaint for sexual harassment, and not.

It is the difference between being in the public and having a woman flip out on you, or call the police, and not.

It is the difference between smashing on the first night that you meet her (or very soon thereafter), or having to take her on 3-4 dates before you get the goodies.

@Sega Genesis

How a woman behaves towards you, is based upon her level of attraction towards you.

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Lemonquesha :rofl:
 

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Ive worked in corporate my whole career so I know the ins and outs of the environment. Much like gym you can create aura by behaving a certain way, you dont have to be the best looking as long as you crush the environment. If you have other employees come up to you, ask you for advise, you have charisma and capability then people notice. Social status gives you the ability to make moves over looks IMO. No HR needed.
 

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C'mon, guys do the same.

When we interact with women, we are way more forgiving of bad behavior if it's done by a woman we find attractive and we think is attainable.

In fact, I'd argue guys are way more forgiving than women.

Obese women who ignores your one text = you ghost her right away.

Hot women who ignores your one hundredth text in a row = you think she's "just busy".
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I don't use Mode One Hardcore in the public.
so wtf are you arguing w ppl about then..
If you don’t even use it ??

wtf are you even talking about … what is
‘mode one, non-hardcore’?
Mode two?:rofl:

Give us an example of how you do a cold approach then and what you say to a woman and how it goes down to get ya d1ck wet.
 

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This is the difference between high sexual attraction, and low sexual attraction.

It is the difference between being at work and getting an HR complaint for sexual harassment, and not.

It is the difference between being in the public and having a woman flip out on you, or call the police, and not.

It is the difference between smashing on the first night that you meet her (or very soon thereafter), or having to take her on 3-4 dates before you get the goodies.

@Sega Genesis

How a woman behaves towards you, is based upon her level of attraction towards you.

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Yep.
 

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Why are you acting like this is some deep insight?

Every high school student with a functioning brain understands this dynamic.
Apparently the insight ain't deep enough, because if it is, then guys wouldn't be out here wasting time/money on dates with women, and/or putting themselves in positions to get flaked on.

Just because it is widely comprehended, doesn't mean it is widely apprehended.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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