If you agree to drinks with him can you at least agree to hangout with me once then at least?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
This is how it’s done fellas!
- Thread starter SeekerOfTheWay
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
SeekerOfTheWay
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no. leave me alone!!
redskinsfan92
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Man, you need to stop it. She's told you no multiple times. That's just on the threads I have read. I don't even read every thread.
Epic Days
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Hey man, the moderators will boot you off the forums if you keep it up.
This isnt a dating site. It’s inappropriate.
Women are here by good graces. This is a man’s site.
You were nice to me again and then you turn on a dime
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
lamath
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The Thirst is real!!!!!
You would come in here and throw out ONE example that's an exception to the argument... are you proud of yourself?... you make me sick
Atom Smasher
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I've banned biggoal for 30 days for continuing to bother @SeekerOfTheWay . If he comes back, he'll be under my magnifying glass and another transgression will be a perma-ban.
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AJ84
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Yikes, if a post from an anonymous poster a million times removed from your life triggers you like that, you have bigger things to worry about than what’s posted on this forum.
Unclench, have a drink, and chill.
Luckily you're a newbie.
If you were one of the seniors here doing the same, I'd seriously questioned my and others effectiveness in Sosuave.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
In2theGame
Master Don Juan
Not surprised by Biggoal's ban. At first I felt his posts were sincere but after a while it looks like he didn't take any advice, he just went on about OLD and what the girls were doing and telling him. He reached BigDave's level. I stopped taking his posts seriously when he mentioned a small town news event having a dog costume contest LOL!! Have to admit that made me laugh out loud but seriously, Who gives a fvck about that, what does that have to do with going on a date with Women.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
Big goal comes off like he doesn't even read the replies, even the ones he quotes. He truly exists in his own little world
That's actually a mark of a skilled troll though...
Just block him lol.
-_______- AJ shut the hell up, I was joking
Epic Days
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He has a disability. Possible past head injury.
redskinsfan92
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I'm going with this theory
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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AJ84
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Wha? Lol sorry! Sarcasm doesn’t translate well on this platform. But I hope you did have a drink
.BURT MCQUEEN
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I wish it was so, I saw so many hot chicks with guys that looked like Quasimodo the Hunchback
RickTheToad
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Must be something then.