If you agree to drinks with him can you at least agree to hangout with me once then at least?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
This is how it’s done fellas!
- Thread starter SeekerOfTheWay
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
SeekerOfTheWay
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no. leave me alone!!
redskinsfan92
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Man, you need to stop it. She's told you no multiple times. That's just on the threads I have read. I don't even read every thread.
Epic Days
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Hey man, the moderators will boot you off the forums if you keep it up.
This isnt a dating site. It’s inappropriate.
Women are here by good graces. This is a man’s site.
You were nice to me again and then you turn on a dime
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
lamath
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The Thirst is real!!!!!
You would come in here and throw out ONE example that's an exception to the argument... are you proud of yourself?... you make me sick
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
I've banned biggoal for 30 days for continuing to bother @SeekerOfTheWay . If he comes back, he'll be under my magnifying glass and another transgression will be a perma-ban.
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AJ84
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Yikes, if a post from an anonymous poster a million times removed from your life triggers you like that, you have bigger things to worry about than what’s posted on this forum.
Unclench, have a drink, and chill.
Luckily you're a newbie.
If you were one of the seniors here doing the same, I'd seriously questioned my and others effectiveness in Sosuave.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
In2theGame
Master Don Juan
Not surprised by Biggoal's ban. At first I felt his posts were sincere but after a while it looks like he didn't take any advice, he just went on about OLD and what the girls were doing and telling him. He reached BigDave's level. I stopped taking his posts seriously when he mentioned a small town news event having a dog costume contest LOL!! Have to admit that made me laugh out loud but seriously, Who gives a fvck about that, what does that have to do with going on a date with Women.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
Big goal comes off like he doesn't even read the replies, even the ones he quotes. He truly exists in his own little world
That's actually a mark of a skilled troll though...
Just block him lol.
-_______- AJ shut the hell up, I was joking
Epic Days
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He has a disability. Possible past head injury.
redskinsfan92
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I'm going with this theory
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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AJ84
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Wha? Lol sorry! Sarcasm doesn’t translate well on this platform. But I hope you did have a drink
.BURT MCQUEEN
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I wish it was so, I saw so many hot chicks with guys that looked like Quasimodo the Hunchback
RickTheToad
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Must be something then.