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Good point about Yoga. However, would the girls think you're either gay or a perv taking a Yoga class being a guy? When I was in college I took a Pilates class one summer because I needed a gym credit. 3 guys in there and like 25 girls. Only 3 of the chicks were what I considered hot though. The chick who sat next to me in Pilates was a solid HB 10 though. I knew she had a boyfriend though because of her facebook page, but I kept chatting her up a lot until I got the balls after class one day to just flat out ask for her number and she actually told me to whip my phone out. I talked to her some in texting but she said she can't because of her BF. So I guess it's possible if you play it right that it could work, but you just can't go in there right off the bat and start flirting with them or else they will see why you're really in the class. Gotta gradually friend them over time then ask them out and it wont come off as a creep. If you take a class that's mostly women and just start being a playa right off the bat it wont work.
When a woman is in the presence of a guy she is attracted to, her mind reverts back to giddy 5 year old school girl. Throw away all logic. Some girls tease you. Some flirt. Don’t worry about social dynamics so much. If the guy is attractive, romance can happen anywhere.
 

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Not much of a relationship guy myself. Not my gig. It didn’t really mean anything to me except for @stormrider detailing the realities of her being and nature, which was really the important part anyway.
 

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You guys still trying to teach a dude with aspergers?

I thought bigdave was a good example on the futility of it.

He needs active real life guidance.

A "life whisperer".
Nah. It’s progressed well beyond that narrow venue.
Too much work with too little return.
 

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side note: See, it’s not that hard. i am not a “hot babe” by any means. i am a solid 5 in the face, body raises it to 6 and personality and status to a 6.5, maybe 7 until you’re dating me then my occasional craziness knocks me to a 6.5 again. haha. He was probably on my level.
No offence, but I've always found it weird when chicks rate their looks. I've had a few girl friends do it, it's always come off really sad.
 

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No offence, but I've always found it weird when chicks rate their looks. I've had a few girl friends do it, it's always come off really sad.
it was a joke. no offense taken.
 
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it was a joke.
Then say something like that to blow it off like nothing happened lol

Every single time.

I'm coming off like an a.sshole I know.

Just something I've noticed women do when they hang around men alot and think they're part of the "boys"
 

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Then say something like that to blow it off like nothing happened lol

Every single time.

I'm coming off like an a.sshole I know.

Just something I've noticed women do when they hang around men alot and think they're part of the "boys"
you’re entitled to your perspective. perhaps if you read the entire post you’ll “get it.” i am essentially making fun of the HB rating. i find it funny, and so was making a comment about mine going up and down based on arbitrary usage things when HB literally is “hot babe” and refers to looks only. i am secure enough to not have to BS or get approval from men on an online forum. reality is, i am attractive and don’t have an issue with looks or body. I am here learning about the nuances of the male mind and read opinions and perspectives regarding behavior, feminine and masculine properties, frame, spinning plated, etc. looks are the least of my issues. i want to learn about more in depth topics and the guys here are pretty insightful and helpful. jokes don’t always translate in text though so maybe that’s the disconnect.

i could probably do well to post when i am joking but some around here seem to get my humor, and explaining it makes it a chore. lol.

i did learn that many men here don’t really care what a women does for a living though some seem to. it was an interesting conversation. you added very little of value. i don’t think you come off like a jerk, nor was that my intent. i can only tell you i was joking.
 
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Seriously NO points for job?!
Career does count for me but it's usually a net negative. Meaning, yes, I bring it up to make conversation but actually see high-power careers like lawyers, corporate executives, etc., as a detriment as I've found the vast majority of women who have these jobs also have Plastic Balls Syndrome and exude too much testosterone in their interactions. These women are better served, and usually find, a demur blue pill guy to date or marry, and that isn't me.

A net positive in terms of career would be teacher, nurse, anything creative (graphic design, artist, web developer), counselor, marketing (non-exec), non-profit, or some kind of a support position.
 
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Career does count for me but it's usually a net negative. Meaning, yes, I bring it up to make conversation but actually see high-power careers like lawyers, corporate executives, etc., as a detriment as I've found the vast majority of women who have these jobs also have Plastic Balls Syndrome and exude too much testosterone in their interactions. These women are better served, and usually find, a demur blue pill guy to date or marry, and that isn't me.
that makes sense and the replies were super interesting. i certainly don’t have a high powered career. lol. i am a medical coder that makes the average incomefor that job. i did think it would matter in the sense of how i view men with decent jobs. that they are stable, dependable, not going to mooch and have the time and income to take trips etc. but like someone pointed out thats me as a female projecting. seems guys don’t care when females do. i find it interesting and surprising but of course i have the job i have for me, not them. i was more comparing a stable career versus say if i worked part time at a grocery store and was scraping to get by, had odd hours and no holidays or weekends off. the men here took me as speaking to women who are CEOs which isn’t what i was referring to at all. but the comments were still very good.
 

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No offence, but I've always found it weird when chicks rate their looks. I've had a few girl friends do it, it's always come off really sad.
Chrisy is a 6 in the face IMO. She's cute. I mean I would pair up with her if given the chance.
 

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you’re entitled to your perspective. perhaps if you read the entire post you’ll “get it.” i am essentially making fun of the HB rating. i find it funny, and so was making a comment about mine going up and down based on arbitrary usage things when HB literally is “hot babe” and refers to looks only. i am secure enough to not have to BS or get approval from men on an online forum. reality is, i am attractive and don’t have an issue with looks or body. I am here learning about the nuances of the male mind and read opinions and perspectives regarding behavior, feminine and masculine properties, frame, spinning plated, etc. looks are the least of my issues. i want to learn about more in depth topics and the guys here are pretty insightful and helpful. jokes don’t always translate in text though so maybe that’s the disconnect.

i could probably do well to post when i am joking but some around here seem to get my humor, and explaining it makes it a chore. lol.

i did learn that many men here don’t really care what a women does for a living though some seem to. it was an interesting conversation. you added very little of value. i don’t think you come off like a jerk, nor was that my intent. i can only tell you i was joking.
Do we have field report update? Has thermostat man contacted you again? Haha
 

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Do we have field report update? Has thermostat man contacted you again? Haha
Yes, he text to ask if i was staying cool and some other banter. lol. it was kinda cute. i am really bad at following through though so if he makes a move i’ll have drinks with him. if not, i won’t pursue all. it’s not his fault i am just a bit lazy with “dating” and texting because i have my 3 and work and alone time. probably i am typical of my gender lol
 

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you’re entitled to your perspective. perhaps if you read the entire post you’ll “get it.” i am essentially making fun of the HB rating. i find it funny, and so was making a comment about mine going up and down based on arbitrary usage things when HB literally is “hot babe” and refers to looks only. i am secure enough to not have to BS or get approval from men on an online forum. reality is, i am attractive and don’t have an issue with looks or body. I am here learning about the nuances of the male mind and read opinions and perspectives regarding behavior, feminine and masculine properties, frame, spinning plated, etc. looks are the least of my issues. i want to learn about more in depth topics and the guys here are pretty insightful and helpful. jokes don’t always translate in text though so maybe that’s the disconnect.

i could probably do well to post when i am joking but some around here seem to get my humor, and explaining it makes it a chore. lol.

i did learn that many men here don’t really care what a women does for a living though some seem to. it was an interesting conversation. you added very little of value. i don’t think you come off like a jerk, nor was that my intent. i can only tell you i was joking.
HB is just a place holder or abbreviation. She doesn’t have to be a hot babe. It just signifies that we are talking about a chick’s looks.

*Although it typically bottoms at HB5. 4 or less wouldn’t make sense.
 

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HB is just a place holder or abbreviation. She doesn’t have to be a hot babe. It just signifies that we are talking about a chick’s looks.

*Although it typically bottoms at HB5. 4 or less wouldn’t make sense.
It’s cool, i honestly didn’t give it much thought other than the term made me laugh. same as spinning plates. it’s cute and i was poking fun. text comes off weirdly at times. :)
 

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Yes, he text to ask if i was staying cool and some other banter. lol. it was kinda cute. i am really bad at following through though so if he makes a move i’ll have drinks with him. if not, i won’t pursue all. it’s not his fault i am just a bit lazy with “dating” and texting because i have my 3 and work and alone time. probably i am typical of my gender lol
Haha very typical of your gender

I thought HB stood for Heavenly Beauty referring to a woman's natural beauty when you subtract artificial things like makeup.
 

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Yes, he text to ask if i was staying cool and some other banter. lol. it was kinda cute. i am really bad at following through though so if he makes a move i’ll have drinks with him. if not, i won’t pursue all. it’s not his fault i am just a bit lazy with “dating” and texting because i have my 3 and work and alone time. probably i am typical of my gender lol
If you agree to drinks with him can you at least agree to hangout with me once then at least?
 
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