"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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This is how it’s done fellas!

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Yes, he text to ask if i was staying cool and some other banter. lol. it was kinda cute. i am really bad at following through though so if he makes a move i’ll have drinks with him. if not, i won’t pursue all. it’s not his fault i am just a bit lazy with “dating” and texting because i have my 3 and work and alone time. probably i am typical of my gender lol
If you agree to drinks with him can you at least agree to hangout with me once then at least?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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If you agree to drinks with him can you at least agree to hangout with me once then at least?
Hey man, the moderators will boot you off the forums if you keep it up.
This isnt a dating site. It’s inappropriate.

Women are here by good graces. This is a man’s site.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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A colleague of mine dates a girl who has some high exec job at Scotia bank. Scotia Bank owns Scotia Bank Arena, where the Raptors and Leafs play. He has seen games for free that that would cost min 1000 per ticket. They partied in the private club that Drake built in the arena. So yeah, he’s happy with the kind of work she does hahah.
You would come in here and throw out ONE example that's an exception to the argument... are you proud of yourself?... you make me sick
 

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If you agree to drinks with him can you at least agree to hangout with me once then at least?

I've banned biggoal for 30 days for continuing to bother @SeekerOfTheWay . If he comes back, he'll be under my magnifying glass and another transgression will be a perma-ban.
 
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You would come in here and throw out ONE example that's an exception to the argument... are you proud of yourself?... you make me sick
Yikes, if a post from an anonymous poster a million times removed from your life triggers you like that, you have bigger things to worry about than what’s posted on this forum.

Unclench, have a drink, and chill.
 

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If you agree to drinks with him can you at least agree to hangout with me once then at least?
Luckily you're a newbie.

If you were one of the seniors here doing the same, I'd seriously questioned my and others effectiveness in Sosuave.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Not surprised by Biggoal's ban. At first I felt his posts were sincere but after a while it looks like he didn't take any advice, he just went on about OLD and what the girls were doing and telling him. He reached BigDave's level. I stopped taking his posts seriously when he mentioned a small town news event having a dog costume contest LOL!! Have to admit that made me laugh out loud but seriously, Who gives a fvck about that, what does that have to do with going on a date with Women.
 

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Not surprised by Biggoal's ban. At first I felt his posts were sincere but after a while it looks like he didn't take any advice, he just went on about OLD and what the girls were doing and telling him. He reached BigDave's level. I stopped taking his posts seriously when he mentioned a small town news event having a dog costume contest LOL!! Have to admit that made me laugh out loud but seriously, Who gives a fvck about that, what does that have to do with going on a date with Women.
Big goal comes off like he doesn't even read the replies, even the ones he quotes. He truly exists in his own little world

That's actually a mark of a skilled troll though...

no. leave me alone!!
Just block him lol.
 

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Yikes, if a post from an anonymous poster a million times removed from your life triggers you like that, you have bigger things to worry about than what’s posted on this forum.

Unclench, have a drink, and chill.
-_______- AJ shut the hell up, I was joking
 

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Big goal comes off like he doesn't even read the replies, even the ones he quotes. He truly exists in his own little world

That's actually a mark of a skilled troll though...



Just block him lol.
He has a disability. Possible past head injury.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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