If you agree to drinks with him can you at least agree to hangout with me once then at least?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
This is how it’s done fellas!
- Thread starter SeekerOfTheWay
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
SeekerOfTheWay
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no. leave me alone!!
redskinsfan92
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Man, you need to stop it. She's told you no multiple times. That's just on the threads I have read. I don't even read every thread.
Epic Days
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Hey man, the moderators will boot you off the forums if you keep it up.
This isnt a dating site. It’s inappropriate.
Women are here by good graces. This is a man’s site.
You were nice to me again and then you turn on a dime
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
lamath
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The Thirst is real!!!!!
You would come in here and throw out ONE example that's an exception to the argument... are you proud of yourself?... you make me sick
Atom Smasher
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I've banned biggoal for 30 days for continuing to bother @SeekerOfTheWay . If he comes back, he'll be under my magnifying glass and another transgression will be a perma-ban.
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AJ84
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Yikes, if a post from an anonymous poster a million times removed from your life triggers you like that, you have bigger things to worry about than what’s posted on this forum.
Unclench, have a drink, and chill.
Luckily you're a newbie.
If you were one of the seniors here doing the same, I'd seriously questioned my and others effectiveness in Sosuave.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
In2theGame
Master Don Juan
Not surprised by Biggoal's ban. At first I felt his posts were sincere but after a while it looks like he didn't take any advice, he just went on about OLD and what the girls were doing and telling him. He reached BigDave's level. I stopped taking his posts seriously when he mentioned a small town news event having a dog costume contest LOL!! Have to admit that made me laugh out loud but seriously, Who gives a fvck about that, what does that have to do with going on a date with Women.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
Big goal comes off like he doesn't even read the replies, even the ones he quotes. He truly exists in his own little world
That's actually a mark of a skilled troll though...
Just block him lol.
-_______- AJ shut the hell up, I was joking
Epic Days
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He has a disability. Possible past head injury.
redskinsfan92
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I'm going with this theory
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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AJ84
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Wha? Lol sorry! Sarcasm doesn’t translate well on this platform. But I hope you did have a drink
.BURT MCQUEEN
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I wish it was so, I saw so many hot chicks with guys that looked like Quasimodo the Hunchback
RickTheToad
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Must be something then.