"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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MatureDJ

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Does anybody else notice that 90% of the people here don’t actually have anything good to contribute to any discussion on the forums? It’s kind of sad.
That's because the Dating Apocalypse that began growing in the '90s had men researching PUA game and thinking "this will solve my problem", and then trying to apply such game and coming up empty enough times that they became cynical, with some going as far as to admit that "it's over". Tinder's bleak numbers for men was the coup de grace.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Guy69JackBlue

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That's great @Guy69JackBlue Y don't you share some of that vast experience and SPECIFICS here so we can benefit from your wisdom.
You want me to share life experiences I've had that make me know better than to blindly listen to guys who talk big on an Internet forum?

Or are you only asking for stories that directly relate to females?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The problem with that is that most (if not all) of the guys trying to give advice DON'T HAVE SPECIFICS. Because they are full of sh1t and exaggerating their success.
this sounds like projection mainly

if a guy is smart he projects that most people are smart . If he is dumb he projects that he is smart while the others are dumb

same thing with women :)

this Is why experienced guys find it difficult to talk with guys that do not have experience and have a thick skull
 
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this sounds like projection mainly

if a guy is smart he projects that most people are smart . If he is dumb he projects that he is smart while the others are dumb

same thing with women :)

this Is why experienced guys find it difficult to talk with guys that do not have experience and have a thick skull
No. I've noticed that when the "top guys" actually do post specifics... Their results are not as good as what they were claiming.
 

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What 'top' guys. There s plenty of snr posters of all ages and backgrounds who have their own methods and style. I personally think I ve had the pleasure of about 50 ladies in my life. That's rookie first season numbers for many of the guys here. But i was married and have had many LTRs. So if you don't like LTRs i am an abject failure. It's a buffet here and there s a few emeralds in the cracker jack boxes.
 
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