She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
That's because the Dating Apocalypse that began growing in the '90s had men researching PUA game and thinking "this will solve my problem", and then trying to apply such game and coming up empty enough times that they became cynical, with some going as far as to admit that "it's over". Tinder's bleak numbers for men was the coup de grace.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You want me to share life experiences I've had that make me know better than to blindly listen to guys who talk big on an Internet forum?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
this sounds like projection mainly
No. I've noticed that when the "top guys" actually do post specifics... Their results are not as good as what they were claiming.this sounds like projection mainly
if a guy is smart he projects that most people are smart . If he is dumb he projects that he is smart while the others are dumb
same thing with women
this Is why experienced guys find it difficult to talk with guys that do not have experience and have a thick skull
