Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
That's because the Dating Apocalypse that began growing in the '90s had men researching PUA game and thinking "this will solve my problem", and then trying to apply such game and coming up empty enough times that they became cynical, with some going as far as to admit that "it's over". Tinder's bleak numbers for men was the coup de grace.
You want me to share life experiences I've had that make me know better than to blindly listen to guys who talk big on an Internet forum?
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
this sounds like projection mainly
No. I've noticed that when the "top guys" actually do post specifics... Their results are not as good as what they were claiming.this sounds like projection mainly
if a guy is smart he projects that most people are smart . If he is dumb he projects that he is smart while the others are dumb
same thing with women
this Is why experienced guys find it difficult to talk with guys that do not have experience and have a thick skull
