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How would I go to Monaco? I’m not rich. Give your head a shake and have some gratitude for your accomplishmentsI am not "rich"
I can live comfortably within my means but that is only because i don't indulge in buying things i don't need or feel the need to show off to others
Sadly most rich people aren't happy they sold themselves to get to where they are trampling over people and making others lives a misery even with the most muted conscience this darkens the soul
On top of that the people that are usually around them are just interlopers hanging around for the ride whilst the going's good
If you get a chance go to Monaco and witness it for your self
It's just endless d1ck swinging and competing
So utterly pointless
About 2 years ago i ended a 4 year LTR because i wanted too try and become this multimillionaire high flying businessman
I feel this archetype is often sold to young men as the pinnacle of existence
So i ended the relationship I moved city , expanded my side hustle and really pushed myself out of my comfort zone
Fast forward to today and i don't know i feel kind of lost , in the last year i have started to realise that money and status don't really bring that much happiness they just allow a certain level of freedom and autonomy which is nice but pretty useless when everyone else is willingly involved in the "matrix"
working a lot to make money when you have no free time to enjoy it or family to provide for really feels like getting caught in a circular feedback loop in my experience. It can make sense if your background or motivations allow it to, but never makes sense on its own terms once you get there.
i place very little value in materialistic goods and i am finding the majority of people i meet are very empty and are usually obsessed with their "image" or body and seem to be very easily swayed by whatever the latest widespread hysteria is
( COVID , LGBT , BLM , Ukraine war , Inflation )..... to name a few plot lines in the last couple of years
This causes scarcity in the dating market when you realize connecting with people on a deep level is so rare, and a healthy fear of dependency on the average NPC who will turn on you on a dime if an authority figure tells them to.
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I have also lost all interest in alcohol and partying i did use this as my outlet in my 20's but now i am tired of it and also feel its changed quite a lot in the last few years if i got out now i feel like i am forcing myself out
An exercise in futility in most places now. Online dating killed the vibe.
I did try going to church for a bit , some of it did make sense and there were some nice people there
but i was also starting to get some cult like vibes so i don't go very much anymore
you need to keep trying new ones until you find the right fit. Most of them wont be but one of them will be.
I get most of my enjoyment now from hiking and interacting with any animals i see on my travels , unfortunately we are in the heart of the winter in the UK and obviously i can't get out much
I am starting to wonder is this it ? it seems like nearly everyone on the planet is chasing a never ending pit of money / debt and how many "things" can i buy with my money
How do people cope with the banality of life ?
I often wondered whilst i was younger why so many people had children given the amount of time and resources they consume , now i am starting to understand there actually isn't a great deal else to do
Having kids follows naturally, exactly. Working to the bone prevents you from accomplishing this.
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Once you've had it in the ear, there's simply no going back.Maybe try listening to this song over and over?
when I hear that I think of trainspotting and doing copious amounts of shoplifting and heroin.Once you've had it in the ear, there's simply no going back.
Stoicism I’ve been into for several years. Letters from a stoic by Seneca is really good, the all time no 1 is meditations by Marcus Aurelius.If I had the answers I d start a cult/YT channel. I m very slowly starting reading on stoicism. The answers better men than me have come up with have been covered here: family, community, service. I d add building character to support all of those founded on the pillars of self-reflection, meditation, exercise and routine. Given the state of the planet add environmentalism to the list. It's a broad church now should find a pew that fits your political perspective.
Thank you.... I am in a similar funk. Found this forum in 2002. Life was so exciting.. started focusing on myself. Got in crazy shape, was blessed with great genetics 6ft4.. started pulling chicks left and right, traveling the world.... 20 years later I have all the money I need... top of my career and I find myself withdrawing from life.Now, what you are having is what’s known as an existential crisis. Maslows hierarchy is filled. You are now on the top tier and are looking for spiritual fulfilment.
See heres the thing i don't believe having children and family ultimately brings the "ultimate satisfaction" many seem to believe it doesIt’s hard for me to get excited about the things that used to excite me. I feel like the only thing that would bring satisfaction back to my life would be having kids and passing on all the stuff I learned over my lifetime and watching them grow and blow my achievements out of the water.
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. Damn.About 2 years ago i ended a 4 year LTR because i wanted too try and become this multimillionaire high flying businessman
Well that wasn't the sole reason but i definitely felt something was lacking mainly because i had been subconsciously trained for so many years to "want nice things". Damn.
You sound like Camus or Sartre. I've been there so I can speak from experience, and ironically reading Camus and Sartre gave me a lot of comfort. Just like listening to Radiohead makes me happy, an oxymoron of some sort.About 2 years ago i ended a 4 year LTR because i wanted too try and become this multimillionaire high flying businessman
I feel this archetype is often sold to young men as the pinnacle of existence
So i ended the relationship I moved city , expanded my side hustle and really pushed myself out of my comfort zone
Fast forward to today and i don't know i feel kind of lost , in the last year i have started to realise that money and status don't really bring that much happiness they just allow a certain level of freedom and autonomy which is nice but pretty useless when everyone else is willingly involved in the "matrix"
i place very little value in materialistic goods and i am finding the majority of people i meet are very empty and are usually obsessed with their "image" or body and seem to be very easily swayed by whatever the latest widespread hysteria is
( COVID , LGBT , BLM , Ukraine war , Inflation )..... to name a few plot lines in the last couple of years
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I have also lost all interest in alcohol and partying i did use this as my outlet in my 20's but now i am tired of it and also feel its changed quite a lot in the last few years if i got out now i feel like i am forcing myself out
I did try going to church for a bit , some of it did make sense and there were some nice people there
but i was also starting to get some cult like vibes so i don't go very much anymore
I get most of my enjoyment now from hiking and interacting with any animals i see on my travels , unfortunately we are in the heart of the winter in the UK and obviously i can't get out much
I am starting to wonder is this it ? it seems like nearly everyone on the planet is chasing a never ending pit of money / debt and how many "things" can i buy with my money
How do people cope with the banality of life ?
I often wondered whilst i was younger why so many people had children given the amount of time and resources they consume , now i am starting to understand there actually isn't a great deal else to do![]()
I´ve been thinking about this recently. Most guys here spend their life pursuing money and/or puzzy and when they get it they arent really happy.Your best route is to serve others at this point. Volunteer, be kind to your fellow humans.