lizardking82
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But he has a point when he says be careful of extreme interest from a woman. It is not in their nature.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Things INSANE women say
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Serenity
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Is it untrue?
Victory Unlimited
Master Don Juan
True story:
Back in the day (when I was a single civilian and BEFORE I became "Victory Unlimited"), I once met a registered nurse babe that I really l liked. So I pursued her HARD and got her---but I couldn't keep her. Why? It was because she was still in love with a "Married Man".
When I asked her why she preferred to date a married man rather than a single one, she said:
"I don't trust single guys, because they cheat too much. So that's why I date married guys---because at least they know something about commitment."
To which my only reply was:
"Yes, they know something about commitment alright. They know what it...is NOT."
V.U.
Back in the day (when I was a single civilian and BEFORE I became "Victory Unlimited"), I once met a registered nurse babe that I really l liked. So I pursued her HARD and got her---but I couldn't keep her. Why? It was because she was still in love with a "Married Man".
When I asked her why she preferred to date a married man rather than a single one, she said:
"I don't trust single guys, because they cheat too much. So that's why I date married guys---because at least they know something about commitment."
To which my only reply was:
"Yes, they know something about commitment alright. They know what it...is NOT."
V.U.
CodeOfAtlas
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"I don't like other women"
Yes, 'All those other women don't like me, they're two timing back stabbers that ostracized me for the slightest thing'. LOL
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Serenity
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So you deserve a woman even if you don't have the skill to get one? Do you deserve money without working for it too? Seems like entitlement.
btownbuck2012
Master Don Juan
^Sounds like something an insane woman would say!
Serenity
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I'm not a woman though and that puts it in an entirely different context. You don't get a woman or a decent woman if you lack the skill to get one. If you didn't need skill then this forum and many others like it would not exist. But here we are, learning the skill of getting women. If you don't need skill, why are you here?^Sounds like something an insane woman would say!
Teddy_Beer
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Grewd you re right what creates success is doing the work and probably more so having the mindset that motivates the work. I think what LA is saying is that your average modern woman is such a mixed bag if she s a prize it might be a booby prize
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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This one is so easy to counter. All you gotta do is just say 'well if you really loved me, you wouldn't threaten our relationship or question my love for you. Only a manipulative person does that, so I guess you don't deserve my love'. Or something like that.
btownbuck2012
Master Don Juan
Yeah I notcied this one too. Is it possible her friends are trying to warn you?
Yes. Listen to them and heed their warning. It's a warning veiled in an ego pump for you. Dont take in the pump only.
Listen
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Serenity
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Not if we wade through the cunts and learn the way of the world, that's what I'm saying. If average women are shit then we should aim above that and develop our skill to gain that. Keep in mind that what people perceive as average is relative, there's rarely any hard numbers behind it.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
resilient
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"I've always got along with guys better... girls are just too much drama to put up with." Hamster statement to defend AW behavior and her orbiter harem. I wish I would have paid attention to my gut then, haha. Smh.
Same experience, but why is this?
btownbuck2012
Master Don Juan
Interesting how women will do that to their "friends". It's almost like they enjoy hurting each other or sabotaging each other's relationships.
There's usually a motive. Revenge or whatever. In my case her friend was after me, but she was right about the crazy part.
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mrgoodstuff
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"I want a man to challenge me", they say this in reference to a guy that doesn't play a whole lotta games, is straight forward and treats her good.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.