"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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lizardking82

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IME those are usually lower IL women. I can't think of an exception and I've have like 5 STRs and 3 LTRs.

Deserve a woman? Odd choice of words
But he has a point when he says be careful of extreme interest from a woman. It is not in their nature.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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True story:

Back in the day (when I was a single civilian and BEFORE I became "Victory Unlimited"), I once met a registered nurse babe that I really l liked. So I pursued her HARD and got her---but I couldn't keep her. Why? It was because she was still in love with a "Married Man".

When I asked her why she preferred to date a married man rather than a single one, she said:

"I don't trust single guys, because they cheat too much. So that's why I date married guys---because at least they know something about commitment."

To which my only reply was:

"Yes, they know something about commitment alright. They know what it...is NOT."


V.U.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So you deserve a woman even if you don't have the skill to get one? Do you deserve money without working for it too? Seems like entitlement.
^Sounds like something an insane woman would say! :eek:
 

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^Sounds like something an insane woman would say! :eek:
I'm not a woman though and that puts it in an entirely different context. You don't get a woman or a decent woman if you lack the skill to get one. If you didn't need skill then this forum and many others like it would not exist. But here we are, learning the skill of getting women. If you don't need skill, why are you here?
 

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Grewd you re right what creates success is doing the work and probably more so having the mindset that motivates the work. I think what LA is saying is that your average modern woman is such a mixed bag if she s a prize it might be a booby prize
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"If you really loved me you would...."
This one is so easy to counter. All you gotta do is just say 'well if you really loved me, you wouldn't threaten our relationship or question my love for you. Only a manipulative person does that, so I guess you don't deserve my love'. Or something like that.
 

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Her female acquaintances say, 'She used to do such crazy things, but she's so calm now that she's with you'.
 

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Her female acquaintances say, 'She used to do such crazy things, but she's so calm now that she's with you'.
Yeah I notcied this one too. Is it possible her friends are trying to warn you?
 

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Grewd you re right what creates success is doing the work and probably more so having the mindset that motivates the work. I think what LA is saying is that your average modern woman is such a mixed bag if she s a prize it might be a booby prize
Not if we wade through the cunts and learn the way of the world, that's what I'm saying. If average women are shit then we should aim above that and develop our skill to gain that. Keep in mind that what people perceive as average is relative, there's rarely any hard numbers behind it.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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"I've always got along with guys better... girls are just too much drama to put up with." Hamster statement to defend AW behavior and her orbiter harem. I wish I would have paid attention to my gut then, haha. Smh.
 

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"When I am dating a guy then I am just dating him". Hb 10s say this all the time. And it is never true. When a woman has to let it be known that she doesn't have a harem of Chads and Brads, she is blowing smoke. This may sound funny but I never got along with absolute 10s. They live in a different reality where they think rules don't apply to them. They would punish you for hypocritical stuff. One example would be getting male attention to make you jealous. If you did the same it would be over. I never met a perfect 10 in looks that was mentally sane.
Same experience, but why is this?
 

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Yes. Listen to them and heed their warning. It's a warning veiled in an ego pump for you. Dont take in the pump only.
Listen
Interesting how women will do that to their "friends". It's almost like they enjoy hurting each other or sabotaging each other's relationships.
 

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Interesting how women will do that to their "friends". It's almost like they enjoy hurting each other or sabotaging each other's relationships.
There's usually a motive. Revenge or whatever. In my case her friend was after me, but she was right about the crazy part.
 
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"I want a man to challenge me", they say this in reference to a guy that doesn't play a whole lotta games, is straight forward and treats her good.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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