Same experience, but why is this?"When I am dating a guy then I am just dating him". Hb 10s say this all the time. And it is never true. When a woman has to let it be known that she doesn't have a harem of Chads and Brads, she is blowing smoke. This may sound funny but I never got along with absolute 10s. They live in a different reality where they think rules don't apply to them. They would punish you for hypocritical stuff. One example would be getting male attention to make you jealous. If you did the same it would be over. I never met a perfect 10 in looks that was mentally sane.