"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Things INSANE women say

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"A strong man can handle a strong woman. A weak man will say she has an attitude"

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I've dealt with my share of crazies.
Women who
- quote Marilyn Monroe
- say "I'm crazy" as a joke
- say "I need a real man"
- say "I was raped" off the bat
- say "My mom's divorced and my dad's a jerk"
- say "I will cut your d!ck if you cheat"

Don't get blindsided, don't stick it in crazy.
 

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It's a coverup, for bad behavoir.
 

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I saw this one on Linkedin the other day from a woman who is a Director of Sales for a decent size company:

"The woman who does not require validation from anyone is the most feared individual on the planet."

God have mercy on those people, especially the men, who work beneath her.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My ex said, "I'm a grown up woman" and wanted to be treated like one. She was 20. Until now, I still don't know what did she meant by that. LOL
 

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"I'm a really good liar"
"I always end up cheating on my boyfriends"
"I don't have my sh!t together"

All were said early on. All ended up being true.
 

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'But, I never tried that many Xanax with alcohol before', said after failure to drive home and an unexplainable flat tire with car on wrong side of hwy. Here, eat my old bag of fritos from my van while I pay this bum to change your tire. True story
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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All these things are because of low IL. If she was really hot for you, she'd be on her best behavior.
 

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All these things are because of low IL. If she was really hot for you, she'd be on her best behavior.
Haha, that's something insane women do. They're on their best behavior because their normal behavior is shit. They temporarily act extremely nice until they've hooked you, then they become the crazy bitch that they really are. I become very skeptical if a woman treats me a lot better than normal. They probably do have a high IL, but they're very likely insane too, it just takes a little time to show.

It's also how "nice guys" operate, they might be super nice, until they don't get what they want when they want it.

Be careful when a woman is nicer than she should be.
 

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'My last boyfriend bitched about being manhandled', she said to me with a smirk on her face…
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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especially that marilyn quote "if he bla bla then he doesnt deserve me bla bla at my best"


i guess 50% of women put this quote on dating apps and **** lol



other is when a chick is TOTAL BLIZZARD WHALE but she says she "wont change" for men and its his loss if he dont want her. yeah he lost 200kgs



ohh my ex said i love you during 5th sex and sometimes called me daddy or said "spank me harder"
 

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Girls love this one:

"If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best" - Marilyn Monroe

"I'm a hot mess"
If a Woman has photos of Marilyn Monroe on her walls - Be Curious

If a Woman has Marilyn Monroes biography next to her bed - Be Fearful

If a Woman quotes Marilyn Monroe or bleaches her hair to look like her - RUN
 

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Those crazy ole women amiright! *arm swing*

Us men with no issues like majority of us being desperate or feminine and having no idea to do with women. Nope just those crazies!!

What can you do? Can't live withem can't live without em. Hardy har har.
 

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It so damn hard though bc if you go too far with this then you end up chasing after a lot of pretty low interest women because that seems healthier than the very clingy love-bombing crazies
No. Go for a woman who's positive about your advances and at most asks to be with you some of the time. But if she showers you with attention then be on your guard.

There's a middle ground here, if a man can't understand that he doesn't deserve a woman.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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