VIVAlasVEGASBaby
Senior Don Juan
I just posted the entire Aerosmith Song Amazing in my other thread called "Quotes"
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
The Traps of Life
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
dentalfloss
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thats a good reality check, puts everything into perspective when you have problems wrapping your head around it all
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
VIVAlasVEGASBaby
Senior Don Juan
lol, im sorry the post didn't live up to your expectations. Lol i made a few mistakes in this post, i can't fix them though, its past the time limit. I believe there are three mistakes that i know of
VIVAlasVEGASBaby
Senior Don Juan
thanks for the heads up. I didn't even notice that until you told me, if this does get in the bible, maybe i should repost it with 100% perfect grammar, just an idea, tell me what you guys think.
I do have a version of this 100% correct saved on my comp, or will the admins allow me to fix it?
I do have a version of this 100% correct saved on my comp, or will the admins allow me to fix it?
VIVAlasVEGASBaby
Senior Don Juan
bump
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Nicholas Hill
Master Don Juan
Eh? Someone call me?
VIVAlasVEGASBaby
Senior Don Juan
I wrote this. they must have copied it onto their site, that's their business not mine. I can see why ur asking me though, i would ask me too. Trust me, its my writing.
VIVAlasVEGASBaby
Senior Don Juan
They should have at least included my goddamn name, those bastards....
VIVAlasVEGASBaby
Senior Don Juan
these posts aren't copywrited by any chance are they?
Thanks for posting that site Thebest
oh and for proof, look when that was posted on that site;
may 5th
When did i post this, well just look at when i updated it,
may 3rd
Thanks for posting that site Thebest
oh and for proof, look when that was posted on that site;
may 5th
When did i post this, well just look at when i updated it,
may 3rd
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
VIVAlasVEGASBaby
Senior Don Juan
URRRRRRRRRRRRR DOES ANYONE ELSE FIND IT ****ING GAY THAT THAT SCUM ******* ****ING STOLE MY WRITING, THEN ****ING PRETENDED HE WROTE IT?? WHY ARE PEOPLE SO ****ED UP????????
i agree with VivasLasVegas just because of that gut feeling. and i know that WHOEVER THE F*CK IS ON THIS SITE WITH THAT F*CKING XANGA SITE B*TCH HOW ABOUT YOU F*CKING GET YOUR OWN ****.
stupid ass motherf*cker, you're not that smart to type up that **** on your own. i suggest you go back to your little XANGA and give Vivas the credit he deserves.
[edit][ OMFG, THIS SH*T MAKES ME F*CKING MAD. F*CKING B*TCH ASS BITERS TRYING TO SOUND SMART BECAUSE THEY COPIED SOMEONE ELSE'S SH*T. WHAT F*CKING LOSERS. IM GOING TO BLOW HIM UP SOON BECAUSE I HAVE XANGA MYSELF.
his AIM sn is: Ejaculasian408
it was on his xanga page...f*cking talk to him and tell him what the deal is.
~1~
oOh Nasty
stupid ass motherf*cker, you're not that smart to type up that **** on your own. i suggest you go back to your little XANGA and give Vivas the credit he deserves.
[edit][ OMFG, THIS SH*T MAKES ME F*CKING MAD. F*CKING B*TCH ASS BITERS TRYING TO SOUND SMART BECAUSE THEY COPIED SOMEONE ELSE'S SH*T. WHAT F*CKING LOSERS. IM GOING TO BLOW HIM UP SOON BECAUSE I HAVE XANGA MYSELF.
his AIM sn is: Ejaculasian408
it was on his xanga page...f*cking talk to him and tell him what the deal is.
~1~
oOh Nasty
bust.it
Don Juan
bookmarked.
trapb #20 about refusing to lead just a mediocre life struck home with me. hats off man
trapb #20 about refusing to lead just a mediocre life struck home with me. hats off man
VIVAlasVEGASBaby
Senior Don Juan
bump
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.