"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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VIVAlasVEGASBaby

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I just posted the entire Aerosmith Song Amazing in my other thread called "Quotes"
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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this

this is DEFINATELY bible material here. Administrators, please, shove this one in there with the rest of the great stuff.
 

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Good post VLVB! Read it straight through.

Trap 20: Did you possibly mean "personal" rather than "personnel"?;)
 

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thats a good reality check, puts everything into perspective when you have problems wrapping your head around it all
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Trap 20: Did you possibly mean "personal" rather than "personnel"?
lol, im sorry the post didn't live up to your expectations. Lol i made a few mistakes in this post, i can't fix them though, its past the time limit. I believe there are three mistakes that i know of
 

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To the contrary, I thought it was a great post, that'd why I read it straight through. You DID ask for spell/grammar checks:cool:
 

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thanks for the heads up. I didn't even notice that until you told me, if this does get in the bible, maybe i should repost it with 100% perfect grammar, just an idea, tell me what you guys think.

I do have a version of this 100% correct saved on my comp, or will the admins allow me to fix it?
 

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bump
 

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Great advice....

Very Moving....

...now where is our bible scribe?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Eh? Someone call me?
 

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VIVAlasVEGASBaby

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I wrote this. they must have copied it onto their site, that's their business not mine. I can see why ur asking me though, i would ask me too. Trust me, its my writing.
 

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They should have at least included my goddamn name, those bastards....
 

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these posts aren't copywrited by any chance are they?

Thanks for posting that site Thebest

oh and for proof, look when that was posted on that site;

may 5th

When did i post this, well just look at when i updated it,

may 3rd
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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URRRRRRRRRRRRR DOES ANYONE ELSE FIND IT ****ING GAY THAT THAT SCUM ******* ****ING STOLE MY WRITING, THEN ****ING PRETENDED HE WROTE IT?? WHY ARE PEOPLE SO ****ED UP????????
 

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i agree with VivasLasVegas just because of that gut feeling. and i know that WHOEVER THE F*CK IS ON THIS SITE WITH THAT F*CKING XANGA SITE B*TCH HOW ABOUT YOU F*CKING GET YOUR OWN ****.

stupid ass motherf*cker, you're not that smart to type up that **** on your own. i suggest you go back to your little XANGA and give Vivas the credit he deserves.

[edit][ OMFG, THIS SH*T MAKES ME F*CKING MAD. F*CKING B*TCH ASS BITERS TRYING TO SOUND SMART BECAUSE THEY COPIED SOMEONE ELSE'S SH*T. WHAT F*CKING LOSERS. IM GOING TO BLOW HIM UP SOON BECAUSE I HAVE XANGA MYSELF.

his AIM sn is: Ejaculasian408

it was on his xanga page...f*cking talk to him and tell him what the deal is.

~1~
oOh Nasty
 

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bookmarked.

trapb #20 about refusing to lead just a mediocre life struck home with me. hats off man
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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