VIVAlasVEGASBaby
Senior Don Juan
I just posted the entire Aerosmith Song Amazing in my other thread called "Quotes"
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
The Traps of Life
- Thread starter VIVAlasVEGASBaby
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
dentalfloss
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thats a good reality check, puts everything into perspective when you have problems wrapping your head around it all
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
VIVAlasVEGASBaby
Senior Don Juan
lol, im sorry the post didn't live up to your expectations. Lol i made a few mistakes in this post, i can't fix them though, its past the time limit. I believe there are three mistakes that i know of
VIVAlasVEGASBaby
Senior Don Juan
thanks for the heads up. I didn't even notice that until you told me, if this does get in the bible, maybe i should repost it with 100% perfect grammar, just an idea, tell me what you guys think.
I do have a version of this 100% correct saved on my comp, or will the admins allow me to fix it?
I do have a version of this 100% correct saved on my comp, or will the admins allow me to fix it?
VIVAlasVEGASBaby
Senior Don Juan
bump
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Nicholas Hill
Master Don Juan
Eh? Someone call me?
VIVAlasVEGASBaby
Senior Don Juan
I wrote this. they must have copied it onto their site, that's their business not mine. I can see why ur asking me though, i would ask me too. Trust me, its my writing.
VIVAlasVEGASBaby
Senior Don Juan
They should have at least included my goddamn name, those bastards....
VIVAlasVEGASBaby
Senior Don Juan
these posts aren't copywrited by any chance are they?
Thanks for posting that site Thebest
oh and for proof, look when that was posted on that site;
may 5th
When did i post this, well just look at when i updated it,
may 3rd
Thanks for posting that site Thebest
oh and for proof, look when that was posted on that site;
may 5th
When did i post this, well just look at when i updated it,
may 3rd
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
VIVAlasVEGASBaby
Senior Don Juan
URRRRRRRRRRRRR DOES ANYONE ELSE FIND IT ****ING GAY THAT THAT SCUM ******* ****ING STOLE MY WRITING, THEN ****ING PRETENDED HE WROTE IT?? WHY ARE PEOPLE SO ****ED UP????????
i agree with VivasLasVegas just because of that gut feeling. and i know that WHOEVER THE F*CK IS ON THIS SITE WITH THAT F*CKING XANGA SITE B*TCH HOW ABOUT YOU F*CKING GET YOUR OWN ****.
stupid ass motherf*cker, you're not that smart to type up that **** on your own. i suggest you go back to your little XANGA and give Vivas the credit he deserves.
[edit][ OMFG, THIS SH*T MAKES ME F*CKING MAD. F*CKING B*TCH ASS BITERS TRYING TO SOUND SMART BECAUSE THEY COPIED SOMEONE ELSE'S SH*T. WHAT F*CKING LOSERS. IM GOING TO BLOW HIM UP SOON BECAUSE I HAVE XANGA MYSELF.
his AIM sn is: Ejaculasian408
it was on his xanga page...f*cking talk to him and tell him what the deal is.
~1~
oOh Nasty
stupid ass motherf*cker, you're not that smart to type up that **** on your own. i suggest you go back to your little XANGA and give Vivas the credit he deserves.
[edit][ OMFG, THIS SH*T MAKES ME F*CKING MAD. F*CKING B*TCH ASS BITERS TRYING TO SOUND SMART BECAUSE THEY COPIED SOMEONE ELSE'S SH*T. WHAT F*CKING LOSERS. IM GOING TO BLOW HIM UP SOON BECAUSE I HAVE XANGA MYSELF.
his AIM sn is: Ejaculasian408
it was on his xanga page...f*cking talk to him and tell him what the deal is.
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oOh Nasty
bust.it
Don Juan
bookmarked.
trapb #20 about refusing to lead just a mediocre life struck home with me. hats off man
trapb #20 about refusing to lead just a mediocre life struck home with me. hats off man
VIVAlasVEGASBaby
Senior Don Juan
bump
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.