Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The Traps of Life

VIVAlasVEGASBaby

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I just posted the entire Aerosmith Song Amazing in my other thread called "Quotes"
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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this

this is DEFINATELY bible material here. Administrators, please, shove this one in there with the rest of the great stuff.
 

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Good post VLVB! Read it straight through.

Trap 20: Did you possibly mean "personal" rather than "personnel"?;)
 

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thats a good reality check, puts everything into perspective when you have problems wrapping your head around it all
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Trap 20: Did you possibly mean "personal" rather than "personnel"?
lol, im sorry the post didn't live up to your expectations. Lol i made a few mistakes in this post, i can't fix them though, its past the time limit. I believe there are three mistakes that i know of
 

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To the contrary, I thought it was a great post, that'd why I read it straight through. You DID ask for spell/grammar checks:cool:
 

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thanks for the heads up. I didn't even notice that until you told me, if this does get in the bible, maybe i should repost it with 100% perfect grammar, just an idea, tell me what you guys think.

I do have a version of this 100% correct saved on my comp, or will the admins allow me to fix it?
 

VIVAlasVEGASBaby

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bump
 

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Great advice....

Very Moving....

...now where is our bible scribe?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Eh? Someone call me?
 

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I wrote this. they must have copied it onto their site, that's their business not mine. I can see why ur asking me though, i would ask me too. Trust me, its my writing.
 

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They should have at least included my goddamn name, those bastards....
 

VIVAlasVEGASBaby

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these posts aren't copywrited by any chance are they?

Thanks for posting that site Thebest

oh and for proof, look when that was posted on that site;

may 5th

When did i post this, well just look at when i updated it,

may 3rd
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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URRRRRRRRRRRRR DOES ANYONE ELSE FIND IT ****ING GAY THAT THAT SCUM ******* ****ING STOLE MY WRITING, THEN ****ING PRETENDED HE WROTE IT?? WHY ARE PEOPLE SO ****ED UP????????
 

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i agree with VivasLasVegas just because of that gut feeling. and i know that WHOEVER THE F*CK IS ON THIS SITE WITH THAT F*CKING XANGA SITE B*TCH HOW ABOUT YOU F*CKING GET YOUR OWN ****.

stupid ass motherf*cker, you're not that smart to type up that **** on your own. i suggest you go back to your little XANGA and give Vivas the credit he deserves.

[edit][ OMFG, THIS SH*T MAKES ME F*CKING MAD. F*CKING B*TCH ASS BITERS TRYING TO SOUND SMART BECAUSE THEY COPIED SOMEONE ELSE'S SH*T. WHAT F*CKING LOSERS. IM GOING TO BLOW HIM UP SOON BECAUSE I HAVE XANGA MYSELF.

his AIM sn is: Ejaculasian408

it was on his xanga page...f*cking talk to him and tell him what the deal is.

~1~
oOh Nasty
 

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bookmarked.

trapb #20 about refusing to lead just a mediocre life struck home with me. hats off man
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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