VIVAlasVEGASBaby
Senior Don Juan
I just posted the entire Aerosmith Song Amazing in my other thread called "Quotes"
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
The Traps of Life
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
dentalfloss
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thats a good reality check, puts everything into perspective when you have problems wrapping your head around it all
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
VIVAlasVEGASBaby
Senior Don Juan
lol, im sorry the post didn't live up to your expectations. Lol i made a few mistakes in this post, i can't fix them though, its past the time limit. I believe there are three mistakes that i know of
VIVAlasVEGASBaby
Senior Don Juan
thanks for the heads up. I didn't even notice that until you told me, if this does get in the bible, maybe i should repost it with 100% perfect grammar, just an idea, tell me what you guys think.
I do have a version of this 100% correct saved on my comp, or will the admins allow me to fix it?
I do have a version of this 100% correct saved on my comp, or will the admins allow me to fix it?
VIVAlasVEGASBaby
Senior Don Juan
bump
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Nicholas Hill
Master Don Juan
Eh? Someone call me?
VIVAlasVEGASBaby
Senior Don Juan
I wrote this. they must have copied it onto their site, that's their business not mine. I can see why ur asking me though, i would ask me too. Trust me, its my writing.
VIVAlasVEGASBaby
Senior Don Juan
They should have at least included my goddamn name, those bastards....
VIVAlasVEGASBaby
Senior Don Juan
these posts aren't copywrited by any chance are they?
Thanks for posting that site Thebest
oh and for proof, look when that was posted on that site;
may 5th
When did i post this, well just look at when i updated it,
may 3rd
Thanks for posting that site Thebest
oh and for proof, look when that was posted on that site;
may 5th
When did i post this, well just look at when i updated it,
may 3rd
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
VIVAlasVEGASBaby
Senior Don Juan
URRRRRRRRRRRRR DOES ANYONE ELSE FIND IT ****ING GAY THAT THAT SCUM ******* ****ING STOLE MY WRITING, THEN ****ING PRETENDED HE WROTE IT?? WHY ARE PEOPLE SO ****ED UP????????
i agree with VivasLasVegas just because of that gut feeling. and i know that WHOEVER THE F*CK IS ON THIS SITE WITH THAT F*CKING XANGA SITE B*TCH HOW ABOUT YOU F*CKING GET YOUR OWN ****.
stupid ass motherf*cker, you're not that smart to type up that **** on your own. i suggest you go back to your little XANGA and give Vivas the credit he deserves.
[edit][ OMFG, THIS SH*T MAKES ME F*CKING MAD. F*CKING B*TCH ASS BITERS TRYING TO SOUND SMART BECAUSE THEY COPIED SOMEONE ELSE'S SH*T. WHAT F*CKING LOSERS. IM GOING TO BLOW HIM UP SOON BECAUSE I HAVE XANGA MYSELF.
his AIM sn is: Ejaculasian408
it was on his xanga page...f*cking talk to him and tell him what the deal is.
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oOh Nasty
stupid ass motherf*cker, you're not that smart to type up that **** on your own. i suggest you go back to your little XANGA and give Vivas the credit he deserves.
[edit][ OMFG, THIS SH*T MAKES ME F*CKING MAD. F*CKING B*TCH ASS BITERS TRYING TO SOUND SMART BECAUSE THEY COPIED SOMEONE ELSE'S SH*T. WHAT F*CKING LOSERS. IM GOING TO BLOW HIM UP SOON BECAUSE I HAVE XANGA MYSELF.
his AIM sn is: Ejaculasian408
it was on his xanga page...f*cking talk to him and tell him what the deal is.
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oOh Nasty
bust.it
Don Juan
bookmarked.
trapb #20 about refusing to lead just a mediocre life struck home with me. hats off man
trapb #20 about refusing to lead just a mediocre life struck home with me. hats off man
VIVAlasVEGASBaby
Senior Don Juan
bump
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.