"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
The real alpha males are fighting the Coronavirus atm
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Bible_Belt
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ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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Yeah, and my father was a POW for 11 years in the worst military prison in world. Made Auschwitz look like a 5-star hotel lol. Doesn’t mean **** though, most things about being a man I had to learn on my own, not through him. Quit riding off the coattails of someone else’s success/masculinity. That’s possibly the most unmanly thing you can do.
There are people out there that want to help others. I suffer from unfortunately, a lot of empathy and I can feel very sorry for people in certain situation to the point where I help people out that i do not actually like. It's more like easing a pain, than gaining pleasure i'd say.
I still stand by what i say about doctors and nurses though, most of them hate it, and i understand why.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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I second your statement about doctors, I realized that about the medical industry in recent years. It’s really just a job to most of them. That’s why I completely disagree with the sentiment about “finding a career you like” because in the end, work is work lol.
But yeah, I have a lot of empathy as well. I just don’t have a lot of sympathy. People will use and abuse that. I can control whether or not I feel guilt due to how my life was growing up, and usually I only choose to feel guilt if I’m actually in the wrong. It may seem arrogant to say, but I’m usually not. If I am, I always apologize instead of falling back on my ego. I’m not gonna let someone guilt me into helping them. I have way too much pride and dignity for that nowadays lol
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
If you’re seeing one, Its a big reason why no one takes care of you like a nurse when their need to care for another is no longer satisfied professionally…
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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cucked by the courts tho
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What’s your definition of an alpha? Some guy who selflessly donates his last dollar to a women’s shelter? Alphas are not nice guys.
Bible_Belt
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Courts might be a thing of the past. Goodbye, habeus corpus, we had a good run
DOJ Wants to Suspend Certain Constitutional Rights During Coronavirus Emergency
www.rollingstone.com
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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Doesn’t mean they’re assholes either.
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Never got that PM. Also, my shift supervisor said you never showed up yesterday. WTF? Some relief help you were.
but you are not a man because youre not sacrificing and saving lifes of countless people
taiyuu_otoko
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That's when it will be easy to see who the "alphas" are and who would be dead without them.
Especially if this turns into a monetary reset, as many are predicting.
These are those "hard times" people talk about that "make hard men."
Only time will tell.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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I give you a car mechanic who has his own shop and a wife and kids who is more alpha in himself than Bezos. When will guys here understand having power or having resources or being physically dominant, none of them, on its own, can make you alpha? Humans and human life is more complicated than that. You have to be able to balance and be very flexible. The alphas are the most adaptive creatures, the real ones. A guy with money who thinks long term and invests in himself and his future knows he has to raise a structure to support him so he invests in other people's lives as well, makes their lives better, too. A guy who got power doesn't misuse it and helps other people is super more alpha in the eyes of everyone (including women) than most of our politicians who are just jackals stripping everyone off anything they can.
plus I'm doing grocerie shopping for neighbours who aren't able to do it on their own right now. I've got the imune system of a roach, give me your shopping list ma'am
True lol
The real heros stayin at home
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Are you alpha too jack12345?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.