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Mark Zuckerberg and Jeff Bezos
Zuckerberg and Bezos are both sociopaths. Zuck stole Facebook and ****ed over the real brains behind it, and Bezos is practically seeking world domination. If that’s your definition of ‘alpha’, I’d think you better reconsider lol
 

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Zuck stole Facebook and ****ed over the real brains behind it, and Bezos is practically seeking world domination. If that’s your definition of ‘alpha’, I’d think you better reconsider lol
Personally I think the manosphere's fascination with the word alpha is pretty ridiridiculous. But what is more alpha than being dominant? Seems world domination would fit right into that.
 

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No my point is you all are key board jockeys all act like beta males trying to be alpha , at this stage in the world we need to help each other ban me from this page any way my point is I’m not a alpha male I wasn’t born one , so I can’t be something I’m not good luck to humanity with this virus I get more
Pleasure in helping someone than banging women !
I highly doubt this. You’re looking for an excuse to put others down for doing something you cannot do, which is getting laid lol

I never understood it when people say that they just enjoy making people feel better. It just didn’t make sense to me. The reality is, it’s not that you enjoy making people feel better, you just enjoy it when people like you. Your intentions is to become a liked/popular person rather than to actually do good for the world. That’s why you made this post—you are trying to be ‘that dude’ who ‘calls people out’ while masquerading as being some outstanding upright dude.

Lol.

Hop off your moral high horse buddy, your holier-than-thou sentiment isn’t gonna work here. Parading around trying to win brownie points by disguising your own personal cowardice and ineffectuality as morality is pathetic. We’re smarter than that, and unlike you, we *actually* are real men here. And we’ll *actually* call people out on their bull****, not pretend to do so just to feel better about ourselves.

And now that you’ve been thoroughly called out, you want out and are trying to save face by saying “oh well it’s just my opinion, who cares, ban me”:
Just delete my thread who gives a **** my opinion
Faux alpha to a T. And you say we’re keyboard jockeying lmao
 

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Personally I think the manosphere's fascination with the word alpha is pretty ridiridiculous. But what is more alpha than being dominant? Seems world domination would fit right into that.
Yeah, I think it's an age thing. I only ever used that word when training dogs. The younger guys seem to have an obsession with it, though. I have a younger protege who always throws that word around in relation to me, and I just let it go, but I'm always tempted to give that lecture. It's just a generational thing, I guess.
 

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My father was green beret soldier and trained with the gurkhas so I don’t need a lecture about being a man , and yes I’m still working the media is not over blowing this this is ****ing real!!!
 

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If alpha and stupid were expressed in a venn diagram, those two circles would definitely overlap a bit.
 

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My father was green beret soldier and trained with the gurkhas so I don’t need a lecture about being a man , and yes I’m still working the media is not over blowing this this is ****ing real!!!
Yeah, and my father was a POW for 11 years in the worst military prison in world. Made Auschwitz look like a 5-star hotel lol. Doesn’t mean **** though, most things about being a man I had to learn on my own, not through him. Quit riding off the coattails of someone else’s success/masculinity. That’s possibly the most unmanly thing you can do.
 

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I never understood it when people say that they just enjoy making people feel better.
There are people out there that want to help others. I suffer from unfortunately, a lot of empathy and I can feel very sorry for people in certain situation to the point where I help people out that i do not actually like. It's more like easing a pain, than gaining pleasure i'd say.

I still stand by what i say about doctors and nurses though, most of them hate it, and i understand why.
 

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I don't like to use the word "alpha" because there are so many connotations surrounding it (most of it misguided) and it gets tossed around a lot in all sorts of situations that may or may not be applicable. For example:

"I had to be alpha so I ignored her for 3 days. But now she won't reply to me. Was I being too alpha?"

"Is there any way to make myself less alpha? Women think I am a jerk now."

"Being alpha does not work. Every time I show vulnerability, women like me more."

"Showing vulnerability is actually alpha because the need to protect yourself is actually beta."

"But I heard that expressing your feelings is beta and women are only attracted to alpha guys who treat them like sh1t."

"She was expressing her feelings for me but I had to be alpha and joked that she was being too emotional and now she won't answer my texts."

"I wanted to be a dentist but it wasn't very alpha so I decided to be a fireman instead."

"My entire family cried at my dad's funeral except for me because I had to be alpha in that situation. Not all of us can be beta and cry at funerals. Crying is for pvssies. My dad was a pvssy for dying. "

"I was proud that my friend finally pulled a girl from the clubs. He had been a virgin all his life. I wanted to cry but it wasn''t very alpha so I held it in."

"I tried to be alpha and neg the target and ended up getting kicked out of the venue."

"Some chick from tinder invited me over telling me she likes having friends over during football games and I rejected her offer because I am an alpha male and I do not have platonic female friends."


"Alpha" is the most misconstrued word in the manosphere. It's better that we just stop using this word altogether. I like to use the word "dominant" instead. It cuts straight to the point and is not subject for misinterpretation to fit someone's narrative.

A dominant man chooses any profession he wants. He does not care if other people do not glorify his profession. At the end of the day, he is paying his bills and not them. "Other people" couldn't give a rats a$$ about him if he were successful or not. They just want to hear themselves talk.

A man who cares about what other people think regarding his profession is not dominant in his thinking. He is weak-minded and susceptible to negative influences and manipulation. Basically, he's a sheep.

A dominant man doesn't even care what the manosphere deems as "alpha" or "beta". He keeps to his own principles and counsel and acts accordingly to what he thinks is right. And he is also able to adapt if a better paradigm comes along.

Dominance will set you free. "Alpha" will keep you trapped in a frame created by other people. And the frame is not even consistent.
 
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There are people out there that want to help others. I suffer from unfortunately, a lot of empathy and I can feel very sorry for people in certain situation to the point where I help people out that i do not actually like. It's more like easing a pain, than gaining pleasure i'd say.

I still stand by what i say about doctors and nurses though, most of them hate it, and i understand why.
I second your statement about doctors, I realized that about the medical industry in recent years. It’s really just a job to most of them. That’s why I completely disagree with the sentiment about “finding a career you like” because in the end, work is work lol.

But yeah, I have a lot of empathy as well. I just don’t have a lot of sympathy. People will use and abuse that. I can control whether or not I feel guilt due to how my life was growing up, and usually I only choose to feel guilt if I’m actually in the wrong. It may seem arrogant to say, but I’m usually not. If I am, I always apologize instead of falling back on my ego. I’m not gonna let someone guilt me into helping them. I have way too much pride and dignity for that nowadays lol
 

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‘Finding a career you like’ or are ‘passionate about’ might well be how some medical careers start, especially nursing, but when the patients you cared about start dying on you, at some point that mindset disappears …
If you’re seeing one, Its a big reason why no one takes care of you like a nurse when their need to care for another is no longer satisfied professionally…
 

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@Thechamp you don't need to tell us that you are not alpha, we already know that you are not alpha (whatever that means). Here's a piece of advice next time you try to virtue signal try not insulting other people, the key board jockeys on this forum do many different jobs that bring value to society and are helping during this virus shiit. I know that you are scared out of your woke mind but just drink a warm glass of chocolate soy milk and eat some tasty tofu while you watch some Oprah reruns and relax. Don't worry the adults like the key board jockeys on this forum will take care of this virus.
 

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Zuckerberg and Bezos are both sociopaths. Zuck stole Facebook and ****ed over the real brains behind it, and Bezos is practically seeking world domination. If that’s your definition of ‘alpha’, I’d think you better reconsider lol
What’s your definition of an alpha? Some guy who selflessly donates his last dollar to a women’s shelter? Alphas are not nice guys.
 

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I hate how people think that if you work X job, then it automatically makes you alpha.
That's the biggest load of bullsh!t I've ever heard!
Being alpha is a mindset, not an occupation.

You are not your job, you are not the car you drive, you are not the contents of your wallet, you are not how much money you have in the bank, you are not your f*cking khakis.
^Only thing you need to know.
 

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Doesn’t mean they’re assholes either.
Anthropologically, the Alpha is the leader. Although leaders tend to not get very far by being nice, neither do they last very long, once the people figure out their leaders don't really give two sh its about them; even Machievelli makes that point in 'The Prince', and he was Machie-mutherfvcking-velli! Ideally, the Alpha/Leader's Betas must benefit from his rule, or he will be overthrown, and a dethroned "alpha" isn't really an alpha, no matter how "chad-like" all the incels think he is. So, the leader must temper both his mercy and his cruelty, if he wishes to remain leader.
 
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