Pierce Manhammer
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@CornbreadFed youre starting to sound a great deal like a member who no longer posts under the previous pseudonym.
Are you?
Are you?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I have no idea who you are referencing@CornbreadFed youre starting to sound a great deal like a member who no longer posts under the previous pseudonym.
Are you?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
There you go. The newest member here, who we all know has diarrhea of the fingers since he showed up, makes the most precise, concise, and succinct statement on this thread.Dude is not your saviour lol.
You pigeon hole yourself to learn from one man which is the dumbest thing you could ever do.
You ever notice the usernames of new members?There you go. The newest member here, who we all know has diarrhea of the fingers since he showed up, makes the most precise, concise, and succinct statement on this thread.
Rollo is a better writer than most of the PUA authors but let's face it, his credibility has taken a hit lately. Deal with it, learn from it, and all the other writers who profess to be able to turn you life around if you read their book...
.... then take it all with a grain of salt.
With this logic, Bavaria should still be worshipping Hitler.There you go. The newest member here, who we all know has diarrhea of the fingers since he showed up, makes the most precise, concise, and succinct statement on this thread.
Rollo is a better writer than most of the PUA authors but let's face it, his credibility has taken a hit lately. Deal with it, learn from it, and all the other writers who profess to be able to turn you life around if you read their book...
.... then take it all with a grain of salt.
Are you calling Xavier the new Nazi Leader of SS?With this logic, Bavaria should still be worshipping Hitler.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Idk how you can even come up with this? All I am saying is that just because a guy posted on sosuave doesn’t make him a god. Hell,I could be a famous person posting on this site because I ain’t sure as hell posting my real name on here lol.Are you calling Xavier the new Nazi Leader of SS?
I think you're just a little wound up from the backlash of the Rollo supporters that you're not even realizing that Me and Xavier aren't. Fact is I made a thread that questioned PUA authors credibility (Like Rollo) months before you even joined SS.Idk how you can even come up with this? All I am saying is that just because a guy posted on sosuave doesn’t make him a god. Hell,I could be a famous person posting on this site because I ain’t sure as hell posting my real name on here lol.
LolI think you're just a little wound up from the backlash of the Rollo supporters that you're not even realizing that Me and Xavier aren't. Fact is I made a thread that questioned PUA authors credibility (Like Rollo) months before you even joined SS.
Relax, take a deep breath, before you try to take out anybody else with friendly fire.
yea, that cornbread homie just got owned badlyI think you're just a little wound up from the backlash of the Rollo supporters that you're not even realizing that Me and Xavier aren't. Fact is I made a thread that questioned PUA authors credibility (Like Rollo) months before you even joined SS.
Relax, take a deep breath, before you try to take out anybody else with friendly fire.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Beats worshipping a guy that is afraid of a blue haired bisexual man in an open marriage.yea, that cornbread homie just got owned badly
Tate level **** riding tbhThe dvck riding of one particular guy is concerning. The only thing I have against rollo is his dumb vasectomy tweet and it it was really bad, so excuse my French.
lmaooodiarrhea of the fingers since he showed up,
What’s that drake line again?You ever notice the usernames of new members?
I really think it’s old members trying to boost their reactions under a new account get the ‘high score’ for validation
This is Tai Lopez In a nutshell.very cogent analysis of women to print and he had some very good observations about a decade ago.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.