Pierce Manhammer
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@CornbreadFed youre starting to sound a great deal like a member who no longer posts under the previous pseudonym.
Are you?
Are you?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I have no idea who you are referencing@CornbreadFed youre starting to sound a great deal like a member who no longer posts under the previous pseudonym.
Are you?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
There you go. The newest member here, who we all know has diarrhea of the fingers since he showed up, makes the most precise, concise, and succinct statement on this thread.Dude is not your saviour lol.
You pigeon hole yourself to learn from one man which is the dumbest thing you could ever do.
You ever notice the usernames of new members?There you go. The newest member here, who we all know has diarrhea of the fingers since he showed up, makes the most precise, concise, and succinct statement on this thread.
Rollo is a better writer than most of the PUA authors but let's face it, his credibility has taken a hit lately. Deal with it, learn from it, and all the other writers who profess to be able to turn you life around if you read their book...
.... then take it all with a grain of salt.
With this logic, Bavaria should still be worshipping Hitler.There you go. The newest member here, who we all know has diarrhea of the fingers since he showed up, makes the most precise, concise, and succinct statement on this thread.
Rollo is a better writer than most of the PUA authors but let's face it, his credibility has taken a hit lately. Deal with it, learn from it, and all the other writers who profess to be able to turn you life around if you read their book...
.... then take it all with a grain of salt.
Are you calling Xavier the new Nazi Leader of SS?With this logic, Bavaria should still be worshipping Hitler.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Idk how you can even come up with this? All I am saying is that just because a guy posted on sosuave doesn’t make him a god. Hell,I could be a famous person posting on this site because I ain’t sure as hell posting my real name on here lol.Are you calling Xavier the new Nazi Leader of SS?
I think you're just a little wound up from the backlash of the Rollo supporters that you're not even realizing that Me and Xavier aren't. Fact is I made a thread that questioned PUA authors credibility (Like Rollo) months before you even joined SS.Idk how you can even come up with this? All I am saying is that just because a guy posted on sosuave doesn’t make him a god. Hell,I could be a famous person posting on this site because I ain’t sure as hell posting my real name on here lol.
LolI think you're just a little wound up from the backlash of the Rollo supporters that you're not even realizing that Me and Xavier aren't. Fact is I made a thread that questioned PUA authors credibility (Like Rollo) months before you even joined SS.
Relax, take a deep breath, before you try to take out anybody else with friendly fire.
yea, that cornbread homie just got owned badlyI think you're just a little wound up from the backlash of the Rollo supporters that you're not even realizing that Me and Xavier aren't. Fact is I made a thread that questioned PUA authors credibility (Like Rollo) months before you even joined SS.
Relax, take a deep breath, before you try to take out anybody else with friendly fire.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Beats worshipping a guy that is afraid of a blue haired bisexual man in an open marriage.yea, that cornbread homie just got owned badly
Tate level **** riding tbhThe dvck riding of one particular guy is concerning. The only thing I have against rollo is his dumb vasectomy tweet and it it was really bad, so excuse my French.
lmaooodiarrhea of the fingers since he showed up,
What’s that drake line again?You ever notice the usernames of new members?
I really think it’s old members trying to boost their reactions under a new account get the ‘high score’ for validation
This is Tai Lopez In a nutshell.very cogent analysis of women to print and he had some very good observations about a decade ago.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.