Pierce Manhammer
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@CornbreadFed youre starting to sound a great deal like a member who no longer posts under the previous pseudonym.
Are you?
Are you?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I have no idea who you are referencing@CornbreadFed youre starting to sound a great deal like a member who no longer posts under the previous pseudonym.
Are you?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
There you go. The newest member here, who we all know has diarrhea of the fingers since he showed up, makes the most precise, concise, and succinct statement on this thread.Dude is not your saviour lol.
You pigeon hole yourself to learn from one man which is the dumbest thing you could ever do.
You ever notice the usernames of new members?There you go. The newest member here, who we all know has diarrhea of the fingers since he showed up, makes the most precise, concise, and succinct statement on this thread.
Rollo is a better writer than most of the PUA authors but let's face it, his credibility has taken a hit lately. Deal with it, learn from it, and all the other writers who profess to be able to turn you life around if you read their book...
.... then take it all with a grain of salt.
With this logic, Bavaria should still be worshipping Hitler.There you go. The newest member here, who we all know has diarrhea of the fingers since he showed up, makes the most precise, concise, and succinct statement on this thread.
Rollo is a better writer than most of the PUA authors but let's face it, his credibility has taken a hit lately. Deal with it, learn from it, and all the other writers who profess to be able to turn you life around if you read their book...
.... then take it all with a grain of salt.
Are you calling Xavier the new Nazi Leader of SS?With this logic, Bavaria should still be worshipping Hitler.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Idk how you can even come up with this? All I am saying is that just because a guy posted on sosuave doesn’t make him a god. Hell,I could be a famous person posting on this site because I ain’t sure as hell posting my real name on here lol.Are you calling Xavier the new Nazi Leader of SS?
I think you're just a little wound up from the backlash of the Rollo supporters that you're not even realizing that Me and Xavier aren't. Fact is I made a thread that questioned PUA authors credibility (Like Rollo) months before you even joined SS.Idk how you can even come up with this? All I am saying is that just because a guy posted on sosuave doesn’t make him a god. Hell,I could be a famous person posting on this site because I ain’t sure as hell posting my real name on here lol.
LolI think you're just a little wound up from the backlash of the Rollo supporters that you're not even realizing that Me and Xavier aren't. Fact is I made a thread that questioned PUA authors credibility (Like Rollo) months before you even joined SS.
Relax, take a deep breath, before you try to take out anybody else with friendly fire.
yea, that cornbread homie just got owned badlyI think you're just a little wound up from the backlash of the Rollo supporters that you're not even realizing that Me and Xavier aren't. Fact is I made a thread that questioned PUA authors credibility (Like Rollo) months before you even joined SS.
Relax, take a deep breath, before you try to take out anybody else with friendly fire.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Beats worshipping a guy that is afraid of a blue haired bisexual man in an open marriage.yea, that cornbread homie just got owned badly
Tate level **** riding tbhThe dvck riding of one particular guy is concerning. The only thing I have against rollo is his dumb vasectomy tweet and it it was really bad, so excuse my French.
lmaooodiarrhea of the fingers since he showed up,
What’s that drake line again?You ever notice the usernames of new members?
I really think it’s old members trying to boost their reactions under a new account get the ‘high score’ for validation
This is Tai Lopez In a nutshell.very cogent analysis of women to print and he had some very good observations about a decade ago.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.