Pierce Manhammer
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@CornbreadFed youre starting to sound a great deal like a member who no longer posts under the previous pseudonym.
Are you?
Are you?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I have no idea who you are referencing@CornbreadFed youre starting to sound a great deal like a member who no longer posts under the previous pseudonym.
Are you?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
There you go. The newest member here, who we all know has diarrhea of the fingers since he showed up, makes the most precise, concise, and succinct statement on this thread.Dude is not your saviour lol.
You pigeon hole yourself to learn from one man which is the dumbest thing you could ever do.
You ever notice the usernames of new members?There you go. The newest member here, who we all know has diarrhea of the fingers since he showed up, makes the most precise, concise, and succinct statement on this thread.
Rollo is a better writer than most of the PUA authors but let's face it, his credibility has taken a hit lately. Deal with it, learn from it, and all the other writers who profess to be able to turn you life around if you read their book...
.... then take it all with a grain of salt.
With this logic, Bavaria should still be worshipping Hitler.There you go. The newest member here, who we all know has diarrhea of the fingers since he showed up, makes the most precise, concise, and succinct statement on this thread.
Rollo is a better writer than most of the PUA authors but let's face it, his credibility has taken a hit lately. Deal with it, learn from it, and all the other writers who profess to be able to turn you life around if you read their book...
.... then take it all with a grain of salt.
Are you calling Xavier the new Nazi Leader of SS?With this logic, Bavaria should still be worshipping Hitler.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Idk how you can even come up with this? All I am saying is that just because a guy posted on sosuave doesn’t make him a god. Hell,I could be a famous person posting on this site because I ain’t sure as hell posting my real name on here lol.Are you calling Xavier the new Nazi Leader of SS?
I think you're just a little wound up from the backlash of the Rollo supporters that you're not even realizing that Me and Xavier aren't. Fact is I made a thread that questioned PUA authors credibility (Like Rollo) months before you even joined SS.Idk how you can even come up with this? All I am saying is that just because a guy posted on sosuave doesn’t make him a god. Hell,I could be a famous person posting on this site because I ain’t sure as hell posting my real name on here lol.
LolI think you're just a little wound up from the backlash of the Rollo supporters that you're not even realizing that Me and Xavier aren't. Fact is I made a thread that questioned PUA authors credibility (Like Rollo) months before you even joined SS.
Relax, take a deep breath, before you try to take out anybody else with friendly fire.
yea, that cornbread homie just got owned badlyI think you're just a little wound up from the backlash of the Rollo supporters that you're not even realizing that Me and Xavier aren't. Fact is I made a thread that questioned PUA authors credibility (Like Rollo) months before you even joined SS.
Relax, take a deep breath, before you try to take out anybody else with friendly fire.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Beats worshipping a guy that is afraid of a blue haired bisexual man in an open marriage.yea, that cornbread homie just got owned badly
Tate level **** riding tbhThe dvck riding of one particular guy is concerning. The only thing I have against rollo is his dumb vasectomy tweet and it it was really bad, so excuse my French.
lmaooodiarrhea of the fingers since he showed up,
What’s that drake line again?You ever notice the usernames of new members?
I really think it’s old members trying to boost their reactions under a new account get the ‘high score’ for validation
This is Tai Lopez In a nutshell.very cogent analysis of women to print and he had some very good observations about a decade ago.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.