Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Thank you for sharing that.. You changed my life.there's a power beyond my control that won't allow me to hit play on that video...
Like a magnetic forcefield.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You're welcome pumpkin!Thank you for sharing that.. You changed my life.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I really like those podcasts from F&F, especially whe they kick out toxic guest to let the others discuss properly.Another fantastic debate.. These ladies don't even have a clue.
Correct. They are compensating.From my experience, women who say they're the strong ones are mostly insecure and unstable af, pure cramp to deal with.
Kind of like girls who call themselves hot, or guys who call themselves alpha.From my experience, women who say they're the strong ones are mostly insecure and unstable af, pure cramp to deal with.
True. But sadly, those type of posts are some of the best ones on here because the rest of it is just whining and moaning.Like posters here who write threads about their exploits that are full of subtle humble brags, subtle or not so subtle dhv's of themselves and chest thumping "I am a man" statements rather than demonstrating how they got the "success with women" or whatever (which is what a lot of posters come here for (to get better with women). But rather than get that step by step guide or information they are besieged with humble brags and regurgitations or useless "red pill knowledge".
All theory and no substance.
You'd wonder what they are compensating for.
Strong independent women aren't suited for lasting relationships with men.
Women are to be submissive. Men are to lead.
Women that try to lead and be all self-righteous are a waste of time when it comes to dating.
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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I am here because I DID struggle with basic things for much of my life, now I am at the point I have no issues meeting and banging women, but I do struggle with certain aspects of things still within these relationships, which is why I ask for advice when I notice situations I typically have not handled properly in the past.it’s ironic that most people are here because they are struggling. Either that, or someone not struggling but one who measured their life by the number of vg they can invade.
it’s an eclectic mix of incels, narcissists, outright liars and a few good eggs.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.